October, 2025 • Coach Freedom and Friends

💖 Small Surprises vs. Grand Gestures: Which Builds a Stronger Partnership?

I saw a great question today: "Are you for frequent small surprises or occasional grand gestures?"

As a #dadpreneur and a parent living with #ChronicConditions, my answer has become crystal clear over the years.
Grand gestures are wonderful! 🎁 That surprise weekend away or the extravagant gift. But honestly? As a #DisabledEntrepreneur, my energy is a precious (and often unpredictable) resource. Planning something "grand" can feel like another mountain to climb.

For us, the real strength in our relationship is built in the small, everyday moments. ✨

It's the "frequent small surprises" that win, every single time.
Why? Because they are sustainable, even on the tough days.
* It's the warm drink ☕ brought to my desk without me asking.
* It's folding that last load of laundry when my partner knows I'm in pain.
* It's a simple "I'm proud of you" text 📱 in the middle of a busy day of prospecting.
* It's queuing up their favourite show, just because.

When you're a busy #parent, an #entrepreneur, or managing a health challenge, these small acts of service and attention are everything. They aren't about money; they're about seeing each other.
It's just like in our #NetworkMarketing business, right? We teach that small, consistent daily actions lead to massive results. Consistency over intensity.
Why would our most important relationship be any different?

These small, consistent deposits into our "relationship bank" build a foundation so strong that it doesn't need a grand gesture to hold it up. It’s about feeling loved and supported in the daily grind. 🤝

So, I'm curious... what team are you on?
Team Small Surprises 💖 or Team Grand Gesture 🎉?

Let me know in the comments! 👇

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

🐠 Diving Into Fun: Building a Life You Love! 💦

31/10/2025

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🐠 Diving Into Fun: Building a Life You Love! 💦

Snorkeling might seem like a simple activity, but for me, as a disabled entrepreneur with chronic conditions, it's a profound experience. It's about finding joy, pushing boundaries, and creating incredible memories with my family! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦
The feeling of gliding through crystal-clear water, surrounded by vibrant fish and coral… 💙 It's pure magic! 🤩 It’s a reminder that even with challenges, there’s so much beauty and adventure to be found when you look for it.

This is exactly how I approach my business in network marketing:

* Seeking Hidden Gems: Just like spotting a rare fish, I look for opportunities and connect with amazing people. You never know what incredible partnerships are waiting to be discovered! 🤝

* Adapting & Flowing: Snorkeling isn't always easy, especially with chronic conditions. Sometimes the current is strong, sometimes I need extra rest. But I adapt, find my rhythm, and keep going. This resilience is key in direct sales and entrepreneurship! 💪

* Building a Fun & Fulfilling Life: My goal isn't just a successful business; it's a successful life. It’s about creating the freedom and flexibility to enjoy moments like these with my family. 🏝️

* Everyone Can Dive In: Whether you're a dadpreneur, mumprenur, a healthy individual, or managing chronic conditions, there's a place for you to build a business that supports a life you love. We’re all capable of finding our own kind of fun and success! ✨

You deserve a business that doesn't just pay the bills, but helps you create those "snorkeling moments" – those incredible, joyful experiences with your loved ones.
Imagine a business that gives you the flexibility to chase adventures, big or small!

What’s one fun activity you dream of doing more often thanks to your business? Share it below! 👇 Let's inspire each other to build lives we don't need a vacation from.

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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31/10/2025

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“Your thoughts towards relationships determine the relationships that you have.”

31/10/2025

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"Your thoughts towards relationships determine the relationships that you have."

As a disabled entrepreneur with chronic conditions, my mindset is my most important tool.

It's easy to fall into negative thoughts:
❌ "I'm too tired to network."
❌ "I had to cancel again. I'm so unreliable."

That kind of thinking just pushes people away.

The mindset shift that changed everything?

My reality doesn't make me a weaker networker.

It makes me more:
✅ Empathetic
✅ Resilient
✅ Authentic

People don't want perfection. They want real connection.

Your network—in business and in life—will always reflect what you believe you deserve.

When you learn to value your unique worth, you attract people who value you, too. 💙

Drop a 'YES' if you believe connection is more powerful than perfection! 👇

A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

🎃 No Tricks, Just Treats & The Freedom to Enjoy Them! 👻

31/10/2025

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🎃 No Tricks, Just Treats & The Freedom to Enjoy Them! 👻

Happy Halloween everyone! 🧡

Watching my family get excited for a fun day of spooky adventures is absolutely priceless. A few years ago, a day like this would have filled me with anxiety, not excitement.

As a dadpreneur living with chronic conditions, my energy is my most valuable (and unpredictable!) resource. I’d often have to sit on the sidelines, missing out on the fun because my body just couldn't keep up. I felt stuck.

But that’s the magic of building a life on your terms. ✨

Being an entrepreneur in network marketing gave me the ultimate treat: flexibility.

I get to build a business around my health and my family, not the other way around. I can rest when I need to, so I can be 100% present for the moments that matter—like spooky story time and watching the kids show off their costumes.

Today, I’m just a dad, enjoying an amazing day with my family, making memories. And I’m also a disabled entrepreneur proving that you can build your dreams, even if your path looks different.

To all the mumpreneurs, dadpreneurs, and fellow direct sales leaders out there—and especially to my friends in the disabled and chronic conditions communities—I see you. You can have both: a successful business and a life filled with fun and family. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Don't let anything stop you from enjoying these moments.

How is your family celebrating this Halloween? Drop your fun plans or your costumes in the comments! 👇

If you're curious about how I build a flexible business that works around my health, send me a 'BOO!' 👻 in a DM. Let's chat!

Wishing you all a safe, fun, and spook-tacular day!

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A Note From Ben:

My goal is to help you build a life of health and freedom. This blog is supported by two resources I personally use and trust to achieve that mission:

My ASEA Business: Supporting my family's wellness from the inside out.

"Success in 10 Steps": The framework I use for building a successful business from home.

You can learn more about ASEA here and "Success in 10 Steps" ebook here.

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