For more than 30 years I grew up dealing with not only continual rejection from those who felt were friends however in the end I meant nothing to them. I was also dealing with chronic health challenges which often needed more work.
Over the years I have applied for many different roles to fill a position and most of the time nothing came about, much the same as my wife. I spent years looking for that woman who was beautiful in her own way. Thousands of profiles and introductions to those who intrigued myself or wanted to get to know better.
Mostly it was never hear from again. It’s what happened, I kept going. It was mostly the same with seeking a position for myself hardly ever heard from them again. Owing to my long time unemployment I ended up on disability support aswell from my health Included. I was also dealing with my health transformation at the same time, I’d started my own business as an entrepreneur, this was in the health and wellness sector. Helping Families to improve their lives through better choices nutrition and lifestyle.
I’ve spent countless hours working to build better friendships aswell through hello messages, asking how they are and how can help them out. I’ve spent years letting myself be someone else as I was scared of rejection, all that did was take me away from being myself. There has unfortunately been one relationship which I’ve seen having been rejection constantly from them in how they have acted.
They walked out on the family saying that they didn’t want dependents anymore. That hurt enough as at the time I was living with my own health challenges, a entrepreneur and volunteer. It’s who they are that they have consistently hurt or let me down their rejection has been a rough part of my own life. They have often been asked to turn up for a event which was significant in my own life and not been bothered turning up.
Those who have rejected myself have shown that I am different from them and someone else. It has shown up in my own life. I’ve had times where someone else is unable to accept that work for myself from home, that I am a volunteer helping people out as I have been doing for close to 30 years now, 22 years now is in the same industry which I started in. I’ve seen so much in that time, helped so many by being a first responder to a call. Countless hours volunteering a year. This does include a number of overnight solo watches keeping a ear out for trouble.
Most people have no idea that I have a number of physical disabilities now. The main one being my scheumanns disease which started as a teen. It’s a lifetime chronic condition.
I have had to learn when to stand up for myself even when there are those who just seek to pull You down and treat you poorly.
It’s been a journey becoming stronger and healthier. Growing up health was never fully demonstrated to myself. I’ve had to change my health and habits of of eating. Less softdrink, less take away.
I am different that I have changed my health drastically. While there are those who really have no desire to change their health.
Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,
Your friends and mentors for life,
Ben and Jenny
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