Stop wanting to please everyone else.

In our lives we go after many goals and dreams that we will hear those supportive and those who will knock our goals. They will say oh that’s too much or do You know how big that will be. They are the ones who have stopped believing in their goals and dreams .

work-at-home-dad1.jpgThey may be someone who you have known for years. But you need to be careful of who You listen to. Do you listen to those who are working on themselves and believe in a goal standing there cheering You on. Do you believe those who start knocking Your goal.

We all have confidence in ourselves some of those we interact with are gonna support You. Others there will be no way they support You. A person may support Your marriage but challenge Your dream of getting healthier. They may be unable to even realize You are working as an entrepreneur as all they have ever known is a working for a living. You may hear some pretty foul language used when they are unprepared to accept what You do.

n-DAD-large570.jpgIt’s just what happens, we need to stop letting those who knock us in anyway from taking our power away from us. These are known as the dream stealers, they are the ones who will come up with some great excuse.

There will be those who fight our dream or want to start a fight for some reason. They are just looking for an argument.  At times it can be a comment like for once in Your life do as Your told. It’s a way of getting control of the situation, they want You to conform to their wishes.

Recently after pilaties class one of the other participants asked me if I was able to wear shorts over my tights that wear when at gym and in class as the tights move down at times. I pull them up as I can but it’s the persons issue when someone is unprepared to accept that is how You dress as a person. You are gonna get those who really are unhappy and want to drag You down for some reason.

They will be someone who has to have their way at times they can be someone who feels it’s my way or the high way or do as I say, even do as Your told these can be  the ones who we  need to stop listening to and run our lives. Its time to start believing in Your own goals and dreams and to stand out from the rest.

So what if Your tights move down to show more than someone whats to see, aslong as You are happy and comfortable that’s all that matters. It’s the other persons issue and problem if they want You to conform to their request.IMG_3036.jpg

Wishing You a life full of Love and Health,

Your friends and mentors for life,
Ben and Jenny

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