Month: July 2017

Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 14 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

For many years the sixth sense has been a strong part of life. Its taken years to say its my sixth sense rather than anothers opinion. When first rode a trail bike I had a quick decision to make between a barbwire fence and a fence post. Choosing the fence over the post and ending up with stiches down my arms, the sixth sense was helpful in guiding to save then.

It has guideded being a stay at home dad, even fear still does run at times. For many years its been working on building a stronger sixth sense to know what Jamie needs and how can best help those who need my help or turn up asking for help.

It may be as simple as reading the message from those who have messaged saying ok they want this support and going from there, at times its meant saying that’s Your limiting belief Not mine to the person which has often appeared in own thoughts when reading the message. Our sixth sense as a parent takes time to develop and grow knowing what our baby may be needing. Then we get to know via the sixth sense what our child is asking for when they cry.

Thank You to my amazing wonderful friends, mentors and family Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your ongoing love support and encouragement. To my amazing wife Jenny thanks for Your ongoing love, support and encouragement that You offer.

Your friend for life,

Big hugs

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

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Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter 11 from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.
Searching for the love that always wanted within my own life at the same time believing that the love was looking for was with someone else that having their love would make it all ok was the main area that sent that love onto for many years. It caused many years of continued hurt and boy was I so wrong with that love being with someone else.
That love that spent many years seeking happened to be the love that had within myself over the years. Having gone through a couple of relationships which really were only Sex to the other person that emotional energy of seeking love was seeking came back in that form for not only myself but also those two relationships.
The question that gets asked time and time again, was it genuine love when You sleep with the person. One ends up pregnant and then the guy is gone, he either breaks up with her, stops getting in touch with this woman. She has his child who may be unable to even know their father owing to the pair’s relationship never truly working out. The emotional energy of Sex and wanting to sleep together got her pregnant and ends up raising the kids, was there when the pair slept with each other, however that was all it was there was no genuine love for each other.
For many years I personally searched for the love that was seeking until became aware that it meant learning to love who Ben was, that meant accepting the abilities that had with health and focusing on being the healthiest could be. At the same time accepting that had grown up with a family who barely knew love themselves.
Part of the key is showing that love that have for our own life partner and remembering those happy times with them. It may be remembering Your wedding day, the day of Your Childs birth, Your first hug with Your partner, Your honeymoon with Your wife. I am needing to remember that love when times are hard, yes it may mean sharing that emotional love that have for those people with those within my own life.
That love that held within for many years which was too scared to come out is starting to come out. It is safe now to express its self with those who mean the world, it can be a simple hug with my wife or giving my son a cuddle, changing his nappy, feeding him, a shower with him. Our own emotional energy that we give will come back to us.
Thank You to my amazing wonderfulful friends and mentors Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy, for helping me to find that love again. To learn to love as was meant to, knowing that eventually I am going to achieve my goals and dreams by helping those who are willing. Thanks to my amazing wife Jenny for her own love and ongoing support.
Your friend for life,
All my love and a huge hug,
Ben Drake,
West Ryde NSW Australia
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Would it be ok if I shared my lesson on Chapter # from Think and Grow Rich for this week’s Think and Grow Rich Lessons with You. A program that has helped thousands to change their lives and to become the person that they were intended to be. It has helped myself to become a better husband, father and friend.

Napoleon states in the chapter on the Power of the Mastermind that “Harmony is needed to achieve Our goals or any goal?”, this was a huge insight personally for many years there was a lot of disharmony with those goals and dreams that have been working towards. Harmony with those who was talking with about the goal was rare.

Often we were on two separate pages in relation to the goal one was often the desire to achieve a goal, whilst the other may have been living with fear. Masterminding we need to be in harmony and part of that lesson that was needed happened to have been learnt. Finding and choosing those who align with the goal that working towards and want to see us succeed.

It can be as simple as building a business with a team of friends, those friends need to be in alignment with the teams direction. 3 people may want to do a business in the health and wellness industry and the 4^th may be saying no let’s join this business of energy and is attempting to force their idea of joining an energy company on the others .

This disharmony will create a rift and often stall that teams progress until it is dealt with. As have seen happen many a times over the years, someone may be forcing their own agenda or the rest may be going in another direction from that goal that was working on. Whilst the team would work well as a mastermind with the companies being left out of it, sharing what works for each person and helping the others to learn those skills. It can easily replace that 4^th member if the mastermind was dedicated towards helping others to improve their health and life. At the same time if that mastermind was business only then the solution can be as simple as we leave companies out of the conversation.

That is what we do at mentoring for free, we leave the company out to stop the agenda and stop those from attempting to force themselves on others. Growing up our first mastermind as with my own happens to be our own family. That is where many of us learn the habits that we are attempting to change.

We learn those relationship skills, the skills to survive from our families. They teach us all we need, after many years I am still working on changing many relationship skills that have learnt. Yes we have all been growing and getting better. It takes work and practice, working and using the skills that have learnt to achieve Your goals and dreams. Working with those who want to cooperate with You and as soon as You may say I am going to do this they will encourage You rather than saying I would stay with this for this reason.

There will be those who will support in a way as have found, they may support the idea of the project that You are working on and have their own beliefs and ideas which we need to listen to as our mastermind group. Designing a new model train layout means masterminding on its own, someone may Say I am considering doing “DCC” for running the trains. When the other may be someone who runs only “DC” trains. Essentially the two are misaligned in that area of the method of running the layout. Whilst they may be aligned with the planning, wiring and many other areas. Someone else with the DCC experience is needed to be able to supplement that weakness of the group.

At times I have been unaware that the person was talking to was the wrong person for that discussion or area. They had other experience that needed to know. Its just taken time to realise it's unwise turning to someone who has never driven in their life for their opinion on buying a new car. As Michael Dlouhy says in Success in 10 Steps, “Kind of like getting marriage counseling from someone who's never been married,

isn't it? I've been married 33 years. If I wanted advice, I'd talk to someone

who's been married 50 years. Not 2 years. Not "read a book about it."” We need to choose those who have the experience of what we need.

Thank You to my amazing friends, fellow network marketers with experience who constantly show love, support, encouragement and are out there helping to become the best Ben can be my amazing friends Ken Klemm, Linda and Michael Dlouhy. Along with my amazing loving wife Jenny with her ongoing love.

Your friend for Life,

Big hugs,

Ben Drake

West Ryde NSW Australia

P.S. Looking at moving states we need to talk with someone who has moved interstate or a long distance rather than someone who has moved more local. Say talking with someone like Ken Klemm who did a huge move to florida.

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