we must use the fears which others place upon us as fuel to achieve our own goals. each of us has been given a road map which needs to be completed in order to achieve that success, for every person it is different.
personally that road map involves improving own health and working towards such regularly. I have worked on such for years, yet the area that held that back was own family and their habits, which are completely different from theirs. for many years I was too scared to go against the grain of the family owing to a lot of intense anger which came when spoke up. I have to let that anger which often came from others out of fear go.
there were so many dreams which were smashed against the rocks owing to advisors who really were unqualified to give that advice at that time. they knew nothing about what was attempting to achieve, during these last 12 months one area that have noticed is that no matter who says Ben do you know how much work is involved or how big a project that is I just say yes and keep on going. its own way of finding out who is willing to support such and who isn’t.
the people who knock that goal are attempting to instil that fear and I will no longer let such run own life. I am going to have that life of own dreams with own kids sure I am a great parent, I refuse to let the false reality get to me. I refuse to let those demons have control anymore, I am a wonderful father, a wonderful adopted father, a wonderful husband, who can easily take care of his own personal family, I am able to build that business which will be there for own kids.
I am able to drive the dream car of a Toyota Hilux blue which is a 4 wd, manual with, cd player and ipod connectivity, Bluetooth. I am able to provide that family home for own family, allowing others to visit as they want and having friends over for tea as want. walking this road has shown just how different I am from the normal, those who really are stuck and own family. i have grown as a person and become a beta stronger person over the last 10 years because i have been around personal development and network marketing.
I am going to go on that dream honeyhoon which Jenny and myself are designing leaving 20 December for Christmas in Canada with a sleigh ride in the snow, followed by florida with Disney world, finally off to Hawaii before heading home, returning to Australia around 11 Jan 2015. once when I expressed about a white Christmas a colleague turned around saying why do you want a white Christmas I had so many in England, yet to me its been a dream for many years. just like horse riding, white water rafting, even having twins, for years I was too scared to even consider doing such. these days I am now around such wonderful positive people who are fantastic and inspiring.
“one is never through with a thought” Napoleon Hill so are those thoughts that we are picking up from others ever finished within their own minds, we let their state of fear get to us and suddenly it becomes a mess. so we must stop this control and allow the positives to take over. this is where we get around that mastermind of positive influences that can support us to stop it by switching our minds to the positive and allowing those positive events to occur.
a big thank you to Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for guiding and believing within myself. Yet also for teaching me to dream again and to recognise those dreams which still sat burning within. your love, acceptance, support and encouragement has been a lifeline. Thank you to Willena for your support and encouragement, to shelly bishop who introduced me to mentoring for free thank you so much.
finally thanks to the ever amazing Jenny Harper who is able to assist when need that support and can talk to about whats going on, thank you for your ongoing love, support, encouragement, hugs, you are the best hun,
wishing you abundant success, a wonderful life of love, health and a huge hug
Ben Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW
(in Auckland for the week)
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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