confidence when I first came to mentoring for free I was needing to build own confidence, it had been smashed against the rocks and well there was none. during this chapter we are asked to remember back to a point in time when we achieved that goal we were seeking, as soon as this was read it gave a major ahah moment for me personally.
the times that have managed to achieve what desired was when I had the confidence, faith and belief within myself that I was able to achieve such. Michael says we will believe in you until you believe within yourself. now it has taken quite some time to get to that level of confidence which have right now, its taken well over 3 years. I can remember a conversation with Michael saying that wanted to build own confidence and he answered that the only way he knew was to do the mental cleanse.
Michael you were right and I am glad that I stuck with the mental cleanse for over 3 years now. we are needing to inject the positive emotions and crowd out those negative emotions, which can rule our lives when we allow them too. we are needing to feed our subconscious minds through our self talk and auto suggestion using faith belief and confidence.
when I am saying self talk it comes with such a firm voice and when am at the gym I am getting people saying hey can you keep it down. often own response is to apologize and say its own voice and emotional voice. yet it also has to do with own confidence as well, what remembered back to when asked about what was state of mind when achieved that goal was with own relationship currently.
having just come out of a failed relationship the thought entered into own mind that the next woman met would turn out to be own wife after 3 months of doing self talk strongly and confidently Jenny came into own life from there I already knew she was the one looking for within own life and that Jenny would be what was looking for. now a number of months later we went on a dinner cruise and I had the intention of proposing.
that night I was intent on proposing and it took 3 times to find the right place and to say such. although I was unable to remember what I had said Jenny reminded me that I had said “I would be honoured if you would be my wife”. Jenny said yes, Jenny had been expecting such and so had her family.
without that confidence I would have been unable to do such, I remember after the 2nd time of attempting to find the right place to do such I said to myself “I came here to propose and I am going to do such” then did such.
there have been many examples recently of such heading back to marine rescue as a volunteer I knew that I was able to do the role as a person walking in confident and within a couple of months was able to say what do I need to do to finish up and return to old position of a watch officer. within a couple of weeks I had the unit commander advise that he would be there Tuesday to take me through the assement needed for such. which I passed, yet strangly enough when I had done such the first time I was scared and that showed which came up unsatisfactory. The 2nd time I was confident and passed. This time knowing that could perform the duties was able to go in there and complete the assement.
it takes confidence and belief within yourself to be able to do such, a song Where My Heart Will Take Me (Theme from “Enterprise”) by James Banbury, Jeff Bova, Jeremy Lubbock, John McCurry, Neil Jason, New York Trek Orchestra & Russell Watson happens to be own motivation and has been for quite a while now. it uplifts mood when needed, having always known the song as faith of the heart which personally it is. it is about belief and believing within yourself.
heading towards own wedding people are asking are you nervous whist own response is often “no” it’s been own dream for many years. during the last 12 months now having seen own confidence grow even more with a number of examples having been noticed about how own confidence has grown so much.
I must thank the amazing friends and mentors Michael Dlouhy and Ken Klemm for their belief, love guidance, acceptance, believing within myself until I was able to believe in myself too. as special thank you also to Willena Flewelling for her love, guidance, support, encouragement and belief within me. thank you Shelly Bishop for introducing me to the mentoring for free journey, thank you also to the wonderful mentoring for free friends and mentors who have been there supporting and encouraging me and to the mental cleanse participants for their inspirational lessons.
finally thank you to the wonderful, amazing, beautiful, loving, smart, intelligent, unique Jenny Harper the love of own life, wife to be. you are the best babe.
wishing you all amazing success, abundant love, life, health and massive hug
Ben Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 12 the subconscious mind from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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