As a person we need to change our thoughts, have a read of this wonderful article. Negative thinking is easier than being positive.
Year: 2013
Chapter 1 thoughts are things
The man who thought his way into business with Thomas A Edison
Man can have anything he wants when he is determined enough to get it. The great leaders have been people who were determined to get what they wanted despite all the trials that they had as a person. Henry Ford was determined to have the v8 motor and he got it. Despite his engineers, saying it was impossible.
The power of our own thoughts is so strong that it can do anything we want as a person, it can make us stronger or weaker. Remembering when was in-between girlfriends I was saying to myself the next woman date will be own wife. Now I knew when met Jenny that she was the one, subsequent events have shown that to be the truth. People can say how did you know, that is impossible. We must remember nothing is impossible. It is all possible.
Knowing Jenny was the one lead to what was meant to be, that came about through positive affirmations and self-talk. Yet also being determined to find that rite woman for me, despite years of searching and going after the wrong women, there were countless women who would of loved a guy just like myself. Who wanted who I was as a person, yet I let others programming take its toll on myself personally and was also blind to the people who wanted someone just as myself personally and was also needing to learn a lot of lessons in business and relationships before meeting Jenny. Aswell as showing just how determined I was to get what was seeking.
The power of own thoughts assisted me to become that father, husband, friend and so much more. I have had a few friends who have been having a rough time lately; they needed me as friend to assist them back on their feet and to support them in their journey as a person. They are like a family to me, that refer to them as own sisters. A number of them refer to myself as a big brother to them some even more as a family member than own family members can be. For years, it is what life has been feeling that someone else is like a member of the family.
We must think and believe that something is going to happen and it will. When we doubt it then it is all gone, when we believe that the next person we start dating is our future partner then the universe will line it all up and say here you go. However, we must believe it deep within our hearts and within ourselves. When we believe we have that fantastic mentor they arrive, when we believe we have fantastic friends they appear. Yet the same is so true of the opposite that will happen too.
I would like to thank Michael Dlouhy, Willena Flewelling and Ken Klemm for their fantastic, awesome, wonderful and amazing guidance, love, support, encouragement and belief within myself until I was able to do such too. For guiding me on that journey to become that better father, husband, uncle, friend, mentor and coach. The belief that was able to do such and teaching the skills to allow success within the industry and business. I’d like to thank the amazing Jenny for her ongoing support, love and appreciation for believing that am able to do such and knowing that I am able to be that wonderful husband and father. For her ongoing encouragement and reminding me, that I am completely different from that programming which took on from others.
Reminding me that I was wanting kids and am that natural father, reminding me that I am not own father and that I am someone completely different from such. Finally I would like to that my friends, colleagues and mental cleanse participants for their amazing, inspiring, awesome lessons which continue to inspire me.
Wishing you abundant love, life, health and a huge hug
Benjamin Mathew Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 1 Introduction from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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Stories and bonding with others
Stories and bonding with others
The best way to bond with someone is through stories of your own experience and telling what has gone on throughout your own life as a person. Now as people, we have many stories, which we can use for creating that mutual bond with someone. It is a matter of being able to talk about your experience and getting the person to understand where you are coming from. When you share your own story with someone, you are bonding with him or her.
Yet sometimes there are people who we are unable to bond with, as there is no real common ground with that person. Your story does not resonate with them in some way, for each person we have to be able to have a story, which will touch the person. When we do not then the relationship is not easy at all.
We have to find some way to relate with the person. Ok a story…. When living with mum (parents are divorced) I was with siblings and it is a battle to express yourself. Some people want it quick and to the point, yet they want it their way… you say this is the requirements…. Such as, it has to be healthy and they turn around and say I do not do healthy. Now you can use that story to express to others about some people’s resistance to you changing your diet. Yet you also need to take ownership of that yourself that you will make those changes too. Sure people need to realise it is your choice how you eat and even your own diet. However, you are unable to force someone to cook a meal, which is healthy when the person refuses to do such. Ultimately, you have control of how you eat as a person though.
I am sure within each of our lives we each have a number of stories from experiences, which we have had that will allow us to relate to others in some way. It could be a story such as the above, it can be a story about what happened in high school to you, about your former relationships and the lessons they have produced, about going after the wrong types of people when searching for your future partner.
We all bond in some way through our stories as a person that we talk about what has been going on and relate to our mutual experiences. Our stories will give us life experiences and show that we have been through something a challenge or simular and come out the other side alive and well. We can express these stories to others as a person as we go along to build the relationship with that person.
Every experience we have as a person is designed to teach us a lesson; we have to find that meaning. We also need to have our stories short and to the point that we do not ramble on and bore the person. Therefore, we need to be quick. That is the best way, the longer you spend getting to know someone the better. Sure, you can build a relationship on spending hours chatting on the phone, yet it can also be easier getting to know that person face to face.
Ok yes there are going to be people who you have no common bond with as a person that can happen.
I would like to thank my wonderful amazing mentors Michael Dlouhy, Ken Klemm and Willena Flewelling for their wonderful inspiration, guidance love, support and assistance.
Wishing you the best in love, life, health and huge hug
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
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A fantastic lesson Mervyn Drury Canberra ACT Australia. on fear and conquering fear within our lives.
Chapter 15 how to outwit the six ghosts of fear personal lesson
Chapter 15 How to outwit the 6 ghosts of fear
Take inventory of yourself as you read this closing chapter.
Fear happens to be such a strong emotion which only takes hold within our own minds. There is a battle which we have to face within ourselves and that is to lock up these ghosts of fear. I must lock these ghosts up personally, as Ken Klemm has suggested in his past lessons lock them away, yet we may even need to go as far as throwing away the key to stop them from gaining access to our brains.
We have to learn to let go of those ghosts which are only in our thoughts and programming as a person. It can be from a tv show, a real or an imagined experience even. However most of us let such control our lives, it is important to stop it. The only way we cam is through self talk and getting around those positive people. Leaving the ones who are doom and gloom alone. There are those who will pull you up and inspire you and those who will drag you down to their level. In life you want to be around those who inspire you to be a beta person. At least that’s what I know I want to do….
There is still one basic fear which I need to overcome, that is being physically hurt. For years the conditioning of past has made me quite as a person, I just wasn’t able to be the guy who I knew was there he gave up and shut down. The loving guy who cared, its ruled own life for way to long now. It is time to master such and to let it stop ruling own life. Day by day it has less power over me as I feel safer. To continue to do such means doing self talk regularly and continuing to do such, despite the rubbish going on within own head.
I choose to be that husband, father, mentor and coach. To own family and friends, placing fear aside and daily working on letting such have less grip on who I am. As own wedding approaches jenny and myself must make such happen our way. Those who attempt to take control its their issue, we must show ourselves that we are making that right choice.
As hill states “Thought impules which are picked up from the either, by mere chance (thoughts which have just been released by other minds) may determine ones finanichial, business, professional or social destiny.” How very true that another persons thoughts can be caught by our own mind and we then create such into reality, yet we also do such with our own thoughts too. We must guard our own thoughts from being susceptible to negative influences which are all around us.
“Every human being has the ability to control his own mind” we must learn to control our own thoughts and to admit the thought impules which are favourable to our desired purpose in life. Therefore closing the door to the negative thought impulses which come our way from a varity of sources.
“If you want riches you must refuse to accept any circumstance that leads toward poverty.” In that way we must learn to stop focusing on what is wrong with our lives and focus on what is rite, focus on the positive. It may take work just as it has personally to do such, however you will eventually get there. Yet we must have a powerful self talk and it must resonate with who we are as a person that gets us emotional as a person. What is that emotion for you as a person????, only you know that one…. Personally its joy.
After seeing the fear of poverty run own life for many years owing to many reasons now its time to work on the abundance and to grow such. It has been a journey as a person learning to love myself, to love another aswell to let that love in even when am hurting. For years I was stuck in the programming of needing someone else to make me happy yet it failed to work, then I started doing what I enjoyed and slowly found someone who was happy with what I did as a person.
Mental telepthay is something that has been demonstrated many times when studying chapter 10 on the power of the mastermind from Michael where a image is chosen and provided to a select few people and that image is sent out via thoughts to others as the person thinks about that image. We are all picking up on the other persons thought vibrations all the time. We must find those people who are intune with our own thought habits as a person and are prepared to assist and guide us as a person.
A big thank you to Michael Dlouhy, Willena Flewelling and Ken Klemm for your wonderful amazing inspiring guidance love and support. Helping me to become the person that was meant to be, the father, the husband, the mentor and coach and the friend. A huge thank you to the mental cleanse participants whos lessons continue to inspire me. A huge thanks to the amazing wonderful Jenny with her love and heart of gold.
Wishing you abudnentt love health and a huge hug
Benjamin Mathew Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 15 How to outwit the six ghosts of fear from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
You can participate in the 30 day mental cleanse at http://www.30daycleanse.com
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ben@ben-drake.com
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