Year: 2013

The following is from Michael Dlouhy’s ebook success in 10 steps, on the power of trust and how trust works in MLM. People have to know like and trust you to want to be around you as a person, when they do well things happen to work out. Yet without that trust there is no relationship at all. People don’t believe in you as a person. Trust is always the key to any relationship.

There is a wonderful book the speed of trust by Stephen M. R. Covey which does help you to build your trust level up.

The Good News

The good news is all the bad news opens a huge opportunity for you.

Now … you must TRULY desire to help others.

You can’t fake it. You either have it or you don't. People know. Truly caring about others breaks down barriers. As Zig Ziglar said, “You can have everything in life you want, if you help enough other people get what they want.”

Trust is the emotion of network marketing. You have to earn it. It comes from consistently doing what’s best for your people.

So first, you need people. You must get very good at building personal relation- ships.

We can help. This ebook is a great place to start learning.

From Success in 10 Steps by Michael Dlouhy,

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A wonderful message with Valentines day coming up, asking what ways do you love yet also do you recognise others ways of showing love and others expressions of love. For years that was the hardest thing and it still is very hard to even notice such expressions of love.

How Do You Love?

Yesterday I broke a crystal vase that was important to me.  It was given to me by someone I love, and I was really upset with my clumsiness.

My husband, seeing my distress, was soothing and calm, and said, “Let me see what I can do with this.”  While I continued to rant at myself, he quietly took the pieces away, worked his magic and made it like new again.

When he brought it back to me his face was filled with sweetness, and it occurred to me that this repaired vase was a gift of love.

I began thinking about all the ways he shows me he loves me. Words are nice, but his actions speak volumes, and I’m so very blessed to have him in my life.

I then thought of a woman I know who complains that her husband and children don’t love her.  She says they never say it, and she feels that nobody cares.  However, when I look at her family I realize that there is a lot of love being given.  She just doesn’t recognize it so doesn’t know how to receive it.

When her husband goes to work at a job he doesn’t like, so that she can do what she wants, which is stay home and raise the children, that’s a gift of love.  When her adolescent son offers to pick up something at the store so she won’t have to pack up the smaller kids to go out, that is his way of telling her he loves her.

Love is all around us, but we’re often like my friend who expects it to come in a specific form.  When it doesn’t, we miss it and feel unloved.

So this month I’m reflecting on being aware of ALL the ways people show me love, and being happy to receive it in whatever form it’s given.

How about you?

Sandra Abell

Sandy is the author of Self-Esteem: An Inside Job and Moving Up To Management: Leadership and Management Skills for New Supervisors. She is an educator, speaker and a Licensed Professional Counselor. She specializes in working with executives, business owners, professionals, entrepreneurs and people in transition. Sandy publishes a free monthly newsletter entitled Focusing On Your Success. Please visit Sandy on her website at www.insidejobscoach.com

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The individual who has time only for gossip and slander is too busy for success. | Napoleon Hill Foundation

The question is how do you talk about your friends and family?, is it positive or negative. Do you gossip?

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