A wonderful article from David J. Pollay | The Law of the Garbage Truck®. What a powerful example which we can all use within our lives as a person. As my good friend and personal mentor Michael Dlouhy says you need to stop letting such get to you. Such a wonderful example.
Month: October 2013
Negative thinking is easier than being positive
As a person we need to change our thoughts, have a read of this wonderful article. Negative thinking is easier than being positive.
Chapter 1 thoughts are things
The man who thought his way into business with Thomas A Edison
Man can have anything he wants when he is determined enough to get it. The great leaders have been people who were determined to get what they wanted despite all the trials that they had as a person. Henry Ford was determined to have the v8 motor and he got it. Despite his engineers, saying it was impossible.
The power of our own thoughts is so strong that it can do anything we want as a person, it can make us stronger or weaker. Remembering when was in-between girlfriends I was saying to myself the next woman date will be own wife. Now I knew when met Jenny that she was the one, subsequent events have shown that to be the truth. People can say how did you know, that is impossible. We must remember nothing is impossible. It is all possible.
Knowing Jenny was the one lead to what was meant to be, that came about through positive affirmations and self-talk. Yet also being determined to find that rite woman for me, despite years of searching and going after the wrong women, there were countless women who would of loved a guy just like myself. Who wanted who I was as a person, yet I let others programming take its toll on myself personally and was also blind to the people who wanted someone just as myself personally and was also needing to learn a lot of lessons in business and relationships before meeting Jenny. Aswell as showing just how determined I was to get what was seeking.
The power of own thoughts assisted me to become that father, husband, friend and so much more. I have had a few friends who have been having a rough time lately; they needed me as friend to assist them back on their feet and to support them in their journey as a person. They are like a family to me, that refer to them as own sisters. A number of them refer to myself as a big brother to them some even more as a family member than own family members can be. For years, it is what life has been feeling that someone else is like a member of the family.
We must think and believe that something is going to happen and it will. When we doubt it then it is all gone, when we believe that the next person we start dating is our future partner then the universe will line it all up and say here you go. However, we must believe it deep within our hearts and within ourselves. When we believe we have that fantastic mentor they arrive, when we believe we have fantastic friends they appear. Yet the same is so true of the opposite that will happen too.
I would like to thank Michael Dlouhy, Willena Flewelling and Ken Klemm for their fantastic, awesome, wonderful and amazing guidance, love, support, encouragement and belief within myself until I was able to do such too. For guiding me on that journey to become that better father, husband, uncle, friend, mentor and coach. The belief that was able to do such and teaching the skills to allow success within the industry and business. I’d like to thank the amazing Jenny for her ongoing support, love and appreciation for believing that am able to do such and knowing that I am able to be that wonderful husband and father. For her ongoing encouragement and reminding me, that I am completely different from that programming which took on from others.
Reminding me that I was wanting kids and am that natural father, reminding me that I am not own father and that I am someone completely different from such. Finally I would like to that my friends, colleagues and mental cleanse participants for their amazing, inspiring, awesome lessons which continue to inspire me.
Wishing you abundant love, life, health and a huge hug
Benjamin Mathew Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 1 Introduction from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
You can participate in the 30 day mental cleanse at http://www.30daycleanse.com
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Stories and bonding with others
Stories and bonding with others
The best way to bond with someone is through stories of your own experience and telling what has gone on throughout your own life as a person. Now as people, we have many stories, which we can use for creating that mutual bond with someone. It is a matter of being able to talk about your experience and getting the person to understand where you are coming from. When you share your own story with someone, you are bonding with him or her.
Yet sometimes there are people who we are unable to bond with, as there is no real common ground with that person. Your story does not resonate with them in some way, for each person we have to be able to have a story, which will touch the person. When we do not then the relationship is not easy at all.
We have to find some way to relate with the person. Ok a story…. When living with mum (parents are divorced) I was with siblings and it is a battle to express yourself. Some people want it quick and to the point, yet they want it their way… you say this is the requirements…. Such as, it has to be healthy and they turn around and say I do not do healthy. Now you can use that story to express to others about some people’s resistance to you changing your diet. Yet you also need to take ownership of that yourself that you will make those changes too. Sure people need to realise it is your choice how you eat and even your own diet. However, you are unable to force someone to cook a meal, which is healthy when the person refuses to do such. Ultimately, you have control of how you eat as a person though.
I am sure within each of our lives we each have a number of stories from experiences, which we have had that will allow us to relate to others in some way. It could be a story such as the above, it can be a story about what happened in high school to you, about your former relationships and the lessons they have produced, about going after the wrong types of people when searching for your future partner.
We all bond in some way through our stories as a person that we talk about what has been going on and relate to our mutual experiences. Our stories will give us life experiences and show that we have been through something a challenge or simular and come out the other side alive and well. We can express these stories to others as a person as we go along to build the relationship with that person.
Every experience we have as a person is designed to teach us a lesson; we have to find that meaning. We also need to have our stories short and to the point that we do not ramble on and bore the person. Therefore, we need to be quick. That is the best way, the longer you spend getting to know someone the better. Sure, you can build a relationship on spending hours chatting on the phone, yet it can also be easier getting to know that person face to face.
Ok yes there are going to be people who you have no common bond with as a person that can happen.
I would like to thank my wonderful amazing mentors Michael Dlouhy, Ken Klemm and Willena Flewelling for their wonderful inspiration, guidance love, support and assistance.
Wishing you the best in love, life, health and huge hug
Wishing you the best in health and love and big hugs
Jenny and Ben
Mentors with a servants heart
Does making a living interfere with living your life????
Click here to download our free eBook success in 10 steps
ben@ben-drake.com
+61294467366 Feel free to call anytime
Mervyn Drury Canberra ACT Australia
A fantastic lesson Mervyn Drury Canberra ACT Australia. on fear and conquering fear within our lives.
