The Crystalization of Desire into action
The sixth step towards riches
No one can achieve anything of note without a sound plan. It makes little difference weather you are seeking to get married and have a family or to build a business. You are unable to achieve such without having a plan.
Part of what need to do personally is plan what want to do, thanks to Tulla Rands for her lesson on a plan doesn’t have to be long it just needs to be a plan any plan. Yet unfortunately I struggle realising where a plan needs to change and making a new plan. I will keep on going, yes there are times when I succeed at a plan as it has been sound.
Yet it was also something that wanted so much like the time when met Jenny locally on the beach, I’d been dating for years failing to create a relationship built from rapport as barely knew the people, I’d attempt to get to know the person however there was no common ground. There was no mutal experience to relate to. So I was meeting all the wrong people, then I said I wanted to meet someone who was family orientated like myself.
That plan worked and I went on to meet Jenny who is as family orientated as was looking for. A lot of people rarely see such as there was no bond, we were unable to relate as a person. Which meant lacking relationships and friendships as a person, although I was attempting to relate to people and build such it just wasn’t working. It was as if we were in two different worlds, there was no commanility or raport with those people.
Neither of us had shared a common experience when we did share a common experience it wasn’t enough to hold that friendship or relationship together. Then I went on to meet Jenny who was like myself that had been through a lot of the same as had personally. That really helped to build the foundation from that plan which wrote many months ago on meeting own wife, something which had dreamed of since was a child getting married and raising a family with own wife.
In a way we are all following a plan, some are written down others are in our head. We really need to get them written down and listen when someone says hey you are off target you need to change this and it will impact your business. In order to succeed you need to say I am going to do this by this date and I’ll be darned if anything is going to stop me.
A few months ago I knew jenny was the one that wanted to marry, anyway I decided on a date for being willing to settle down. The night after that date had passed was the same night I proposed to Jenny and then the following Monday we were accepted for two homes. Was it coincidence no, we’d been searching for someone to start our lives together. Just needed to do such and get to the stage where we were unprepared to give up.
On the nite proposed to Jenny it took 3 times to ask her to marry me. I had said to myself I came here to do such and I am not going to stop. I found a place and a way and did such. To which Jenny said yes.
A big thank you to Michael Dlouhy, Willena Flewelling and Ken Klemm for your inspiration, Love, guidance, support, encouragement. For assisting me on that journey to become that better father, husband, fiancé, friend, to grow in that role day by day. To the team at mentoring for free and the mental cleanse particpents, thank you very much for your inspirational lessons which inspire me regularly.
Abundent love, health and big hugs,
Benjamin Mathew Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 7 Organised Planning from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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