The starting point of all achiement
The first step towards riches
This is a very powerful chapter, for many years I saught my own family. A wife and kids to love and to share own love with and who would love me back. This was burning within so strongly, however one thing held me back from such. That was my own father, the man who was working to avoid being as a person. I had spent many years working on myself to stop such from happening.
The one thng that neeed to get through own head was that “I am not!!!! My father”. As Jenny has said you are different from your father, a man who you were unable to please. Constantly with a bee in his bonnet as mum would say. It has taken quite some time to realise that I am in no way my father. That I need to be myself and live my own life. Also that need to stop pleasing a man just to keep him happy.
All these years my own burning desire has been to be a father, a husband. Also to have a father who accepted who his son was, that may take a while to come. I am going to find a way to be that husband, father and parent that jenny and her parents can see. I have to walk away from the image that own father has placed inside and start a new one. After all this is my own choice and the type of father that choose to be is very different from what knew.
I have developed a number of the skills that were needed. However I also now need to learn more to be that father who I want to be. The father who is at home for the kids, the father who does tuckshop duty, the father who drops kids at school, who is there for the kids. Being able to take holidays wth them, travel the world with own kids.
It starts now, with the family have now which is Jenny. She is my family at this point, the most loving woman that have in own life. With two fabulous inlaws and loving mum, that’s enough. Together jenny and myself have to create those new traditions and build our own unit, leaving the old behind.
Yes I am a father and a husband, I am not my own father and that has taken years to realise. Yet also walking away from his constant presence, thank you to Michael Dlouhy, Willena Flewelling, Ken Klemm and the wonderful mentors from mentoring for free. Thank you to the wonderful mental cleanse participents whos lessons inspire me.
Abundant love, hugs and health
Benjamin Mathew Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
This lesson plan was inspired by chapter from think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.
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