Chapter 15 Personal Lesson plan

Chapter 15 How to outwit the six ghosts of fear

Take inventory of yourself, as you read this closing chapter and find out how many of the ghosts are standing in your way.

This was a powerful chapter that it demonstrated that for many years own life has been ruled by fear. From the fear of ill health, poverty, loss of love, criticism and death, also the seventh basic evil. Also that a lot of own associates were ruled by fears as well and now I am needing to stop replying to those fears.

Now I grew up with my grandfather who was a man that had few fears, you couldn’t tie him down as a person as he was off gardening, up late at nite working on his latest project from a painting job to a project for my grandmother. He could barely sleep some nites as was in a bit of pain, yet did his best.

Over the years I unfortunately let myself become programed through a number of fears which came from negative influences. Its taken some time to be able to face a lot of these and say hey don’t speak to me like that, to even realise that a person is operating from fear or jealousy or something else as a person.

One thing I remember is that when met Jenny there was no fear at all. I’d met a lovely lady called Jackie a bit before who was my first intermit relationship. Although it lasted only one weekend, it showed where had gone. From there I continued on own journey to become a better person and lover to Jenny. It took many years to learn those skills and many lessons to be able to have such a relationship as I have now yet a lot of people are saying you are so happy.

I had a dinner on Saturday nite with a best friend and a lovely dinner it was just the three of us, my best friend Sean, Jenny and myself. It was good company and relaxing over a lovely meal for me such would have never been easy in the past. Yet I knew it was ok and was going to be fine, these days I am aware that it is ok to be myself and that Jenny cares for me as I am as a person.

The muscle issues, the back issues everything. It makes no difference to her love, wow what a difference from the love that once knew. A love which was more fear based.

A special big thank you to Michael, Willena and Ken for your inspirational mentoring and guidance for your love support and encouragement to be able to do things that may have said I am unable to do that anymore with health. These days I do what can and do the best I can, thank you to the wonderful mental cleanse participants whos lessons inspire me.

Abundant Love, hugs and health

Benjamin Mathew Drake

Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia

This lesson plan was inspired by chapter 15 How to outwit the six ghosts of fear for of think and grow rich the 30 day mental cleanse.

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Your own dreams as a person

A wonderful article form Cynthia Kersey, on the power of our dreams. That they are the only things that really do count and that we need to follow those dreams despite all opposition,
it is here that we build our own mental toughness as a person and become that person who is truly deserving of success.

Your Dream and the Only Opinion that Counts

by Cynthia Kersey

The only opinion about your dream that really counts is yours. The negative comments of others merely reflect their limitations - not yours.

Fashion photographer Richard Avedon tried to convince Cher that she didn't have the right look to be a model. He told her flat out, "You will never make the cover of Vogue because you don't have blond hair or blue eyes." When she did, Vogue sold more copies than it had ever sold before.

When Gustave Leven was making plans to launch Perrier in the United States, several consulting firms advised him, "You're foolish to try to sell sparkling water in the land of Coca-Cola drinkers."

A New York publisher told James Michener after reading his first unpublished manuscript, "You're a good editor with a promising future in the business. Why would you want to throw it all away to try to be a writer? I read your book. Frankly, it's not really that good." Michener's manuscript, titled Tales of the South Pacific, eventually was sold and later won a Pulitzer Prize and was adapted for stage and screen as "South Pacific."

Remember, there is nothing unrealistic about a dream that aligns with your purpose, ignites your passion, and inspires you to plan and persevere until you attain it. On the contrary, it's unrealistic to expect a person with such drive and commitment not to succeed.

From Jim Rohn’s newsletter, on the power of believing in your own dreams as a person.

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Your philosophy

A powerful article from Jim Rohn on your personal Philosophy as a person. At times we need to work on our own personal philosophy rather than what should happen.

Vitamins for the Mind by Jim Rohn

Personal Philosophy

Economic disaster begins with a philosophy of doing less and wanting more.

If you want to amend your errors, you must begin by amending your philosophy.

The only thing worse than not reading a book in the last ninety days is not reading a book in the last ninety days and thinking that it doesn't matter.

Your personal philosophy is the greatest determining factor in how your life works out.

Initial response illustrates a great deal about someone's personal philosophy.

Only human beings can reorder their lives any day they choose by refining their philosophy.

“Vitamins for the Mind” is a weekly sampling of original quotes on a specific topic taken from The Treasury of Quotes by Jim Rohn. The burgundy hardbound book with gold-foil lettering is a collection of more than 365 quotes on 60 topics gathered from Jim’s personal journals, seminars and books and spanning more than 40 years.
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From Jim Rohn;s newsletter

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Success is doing those simple things daily!!!

A powerful article from Jim Rohn on the power success and neglect its easy to do those simple things, yet they are also easy not to do as a person. What are those simple things that you are neglecting to
do that could bring you the success in your own life or business? As pointed out by Jim there is an abundance of money and opportunity out there its a matter of people neglecting to do those
things which the rich do to achieve their success in life.
People sit there and envy those who are successful yet they are unable to realise that they are neglecting something that is important for their success.

Success is Easy, But So is Neglect

by Jim Rohn

People often ask me how I became successful in that six-year period of time while many of the people I knew did not. The answer is simple: The things I found to be easy to do, they found to be easy not to do. I found it easy to set the goals that could change my life. They found it easy not to. I found it easy to read the books that could affect my thinking and my ideas. They found that easy not to. I found it easy to attend the classes and the seminars, and to get around other successful people. They said it probably really wouldn't matter. If I had to sum it up, I would say what I found to be easy to do, they found to be easy not to do. Six years later, I'm a millionaire and they are all still blaming the economy, the government, and company policies, yet they neglected to do the basic, easy things.

In fact, the primary reason most people are not doing as well as they could and should, can be summed up in a single word: neglect.

It is not the lack of money - banks are full of money. It is not the lack of opportunity - America, and much of the free World, continues to offer the most unprecedented and abundant opportunities in the last six thousand years of recorded history. It is not the lack of books – libraries are full of books - and they are free! It is not the schools - the classrooms are full of good teachers. We have plenty of ministers, leaders, counselors and advisors.

Everything we would ever need to become rich and powerful and sophisticated is within our reach. The major reason that so few take advantage of all that we have is simply neglect.

Neglect is like an infection. Left unchecked it will spread throughout our entire system of disciplines and eventually lead to a complete breakdown of a potentially joy-filled and prosperous human life.

Not doing the things we know we should do causes us to feel guilty and guilt leads to an erosion of self-confidence. As our self-confidence diminishes, so does the level of our activity. And as our activity diminishes, our results inevitably decline. And as our results suffer, our attitude begins to weaken. And as our attitude begins the slow shift from positive to negative, our self-confidence diminishes even more... and on and on it goes.

So my suggestion is that when giving the choice of “easy to” and “easy not to” that you do not neglect to do the simple, basic, “easy” but potentially life-changing activities and disciplines.

From Jim Rohn’s newsletter a powerful article on success and neglect.

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A wonderful video on the subconscious mind

What a wonderful video from Bob Proctor on reprogramming your subconscious mind. As my good friend and mentor Michael Dlouhy says, you need to
get rid of all that false programming in order to own your life. You have to do the work to become worth more, for you to make more you have to become
worth more.

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From You tube a wonderful video thank you to Mat from Empowernetwork for reminding me of this wonderful video.

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