Year: 2012

Tuula Rands, British Columbia, Canada

Chapter 11 The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
We are told in this chapter the emotion of sex brings into being
a state of mind which must be changed from thoughts of physical
expression to thoughts of some other nature.
Hill gives us the example of a salesman who has acquired
the art of sex transmutation when the salesman knows how to take his mind
off the subject of sex, and direct it in sales effort with as much enthusiasm
and determination as he would apply to its original purpose.
This process takes being in control of our mind and as we learned
previously in Chapter 1 “thoughts are things” and we can create in ourselves the
habit of dominating our thoughts into whatever area of our lives we
want transformed.
Love is life’s greatest experience.  When mixed with romance and sex
Love can develop us to a greater person and give us the desire and reason
for accomplishing more than we ever thought possible.
When we love what we do and by controlling our thoughts we can  take the
power of  romance and sex and transfer that energy into our Network Marketing business.
Make it a love relationship and our business will be transformed into
something far greater than we ever imagined before.
Tuula Rands

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Willena Flewelling - Alberta Canada

CHAPTER 11:  Transmutation
"Sex transmutation is simple and easily explained. It means the switching of
the mind from thoughts of physical expression, to thoughts of some other
nature."  ~ a quote from Napoleon Hill
November is National Novel Writing Month, affectionately known to participants
as NaNoWriMo. A wonderful, crazy time of literary abandon, when some of my
children and I work our fingers off writing at least 50000 words of fiction. A
time of driving to the city for as many of the Edmonton Wrimos events as we
can.
The wrap up party is the first Saturday night in December. Three years ago,
Dec. 5, 2009, was memorable in ways we didn't even know when it was
happening.
Two families... three vehicles... and we were off to the city. It didn't matter
who went in which vehicle, since we were all friends... parents and children.
Several members of each family had participated in NaNoWriMo. Some had
reached the 50000 word goal. Others had not. Some hadn't even participated
at all. But all of us headed for the city in the early afternoon, planning on
making a day of it.
We all went to a restaurant for lunch, and pulled several tables together to
make one long one. A dozen of us made for a noisy party of people cutting
up and having a great time. We had various stops to make before our evening
party.
Our son James didn't come to the NaNoWriMo party. He took the two little
boys to McDonalds, then shopping, and then took them home.
It was a wonderful day spent with friends, doing what we all enjoyed doing.
It was also the last time our friends saw James, because it was one week
later that he was taken from us in a highway accident.
November is still National Novel Writing Month, and my family still participates.
But I'll never forget the shock I experienced the following year, when we
geared up for NaNoWriMo and attended the events. During some panicky
moments I wondered if I could separate the triggers from the events.
So how did I do it? And how do I do it every year when this season rolls
around? The answer is in this chapter.
Mr. Hill puts the desire for sex expression at the top of the list of ten mind
stimuli. He doesn't even list the agony grief at all, so I'm not sure where it
would fit. But in my experience, it has been a tremendous exercise in switching
from negative to positive. James used to catch me up when I spoke of my
inadequacies, and when I started to get too negative he would push me
toward action. I could have let his death mark the end of my November writing,
because of the painful memories. Instead I think of how James would have
been proud to see me continue with it and move toward my goal of being a
many-times published author in the future. In the past I have locked up my
passion for writing, burying it under the burdens of life with a growing family
of small children. It didn't work. It was not emotionally healthy. 
Michael often tells us how he goes to his perfect moment, or his perfect day,
when things around him turn negative. It doesn't matter what the circumstance
is. What matters is that we do what Michael does. Go to your perfect day.
Never let the present circumstances spoil your day, even when it seems to be
intricately interwoven with something sad or bad. Today is today, not yesterday
or last week or a year ago or three years ago. Don't let the past keep you from
pursuing your dreams. Don't die with your music in you.
Willena Flewelling
Alberta Canada
P.S. I'm sure I will be reminded of this in another way in the next few weeks.
My girls, Raewyn and Vicki, are returning to Japan for a two-and-a-half week
vacation. This time they are taking my youngest, Nathaniel, with them. Nathaniel
is 13, but he is still my baby. If he weren't going with his dependable and
trustworthy big sisters, I would be a quivering mass of nerves right now. But
he is in capable hands, and when I start to worry, I switch to thoughts of
what a wonderfully exciting and enlightening experience this will be for Nathaniel...
a memory he will treasure for the rest of his life. I will also treasure in my heart
my wonderful girls, who are 24 and almost 26, and have been scrimping and saving
for a whole year so they could pay the way for their 13-year-old brother to go to
Japan with them. It's not every mother who can say that of their grown single
daughters. I feel truly blessed.

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Bev Bojarski, Cornwall, Ontario, Canada

CHAPTER 11
THE MYSTERY OF SEX TRANSMUTATION
The Tenth Step toward Riches
When transmuting (which is changing or transferring), the emotion of sex to another element or form of energy, a Powerful, Priceless tool is formed.  This is a tool or weapon fashioned that can overcome obstacles and propel me into action to accomplish my Heart’s Desire!  It is capable of lifting me to a higher level of thought, enabling me to master the sources of worry and petty annoyance that can usually affect me.  It keeps me focused on positive thoughts and emotions because I am using the 3 chord, strongest bond of Love, Sex and Romance! 
Faulty programming from the past has made this a difficult lesson to learn.  Sex is and was a dirty word to many, because it was taken out of the area where it was created for…marriage.  Sex is God ordained!  He created it as a beautiful and wondrous gift for mankind!  The emotion of sex is an irresistible force and when driven by this emotion, men (and I dare say, women) become gifted with a super power for action.
Don’t stifle or quench your sixth sense, which is Creative Imagination at work.  This has been a lesson I have learned.  I am developing through use, my sixth sense, I am learning to stop, be in the present moment and LISTEN to it, I have trust and faith that it is Accurate.  When I realized that this too is a gift from God, that I am actually accessing a direct link with God when exercising my creative imagination, my sixth sense, I felt the power and the peace which it brings to me.
I watch my husband and how he works at his job.  He’s a great salesman, in fact he is rated #2 across Canada with Staples.  I take pride in that now, even more as I realize that his love for me and our relationship has been a major factor in his success.  He also preaches for our little congregation and he shines there too.  We still hold hands and will even occasionally kiss in public, after 39 years of marriage.  Love like this transcends time and space it is part of our souls and that is so powerful!
I was impressed with the take on personal magnetism, which is in itself, sex energy.  I related it to my husband as well as to myself.  In my Network Marketing company one of the things we are encouraged to do is to meet people face to face and give them a card with information about our main product.  I did something a little different the last time I went out to hand out cards, I applied these 5 steps:  1.  The hand shake (firm and pleasant), 2.  The tone of voice, which is a Very Important one (I applied enthusiasm), 3.  The vibrations of thought (don’t go out with a bad mood…I said my self-talk until I was mentally sending out good vibrations) and 5.  Body adornment (this one was a push, I like to be comfortable, I dressed up aiming for a pleasant and professional look).  Wow, what a difference this made, I felt good, instead of intimidated, I was positive, friendly and confident.  Whether it results in anything or not, it did make me feel better about myself, what I was doing and what I was offering, hence I would call it successful!
I lost both of my parents in the past 3 years.  My memories of them still sustain and lift me up.  I only remember and focus on the good times, the wonderful feeling of love they had for the Lord, for each other, for their children and for all of their surrogate children and people they helped over the years.  My parents were the epitome of hospitality.  They didn’t have much but besides their six children they cared for many and shared with many others.  They had Big Hearts and Big Love.  People always remembered how Mom and Dad made them feel.  Loved and wanted.
Memories of love never pass.  They linger, guide and influence you long after the source is gone.
Love is without question, Life’s Greatest Experience.  It brings one into communion with God.  The emotions of love, sex and romance are sides of the eternal triangle of achievement-building genius.  Nature creates genii through no other force!!!
Blessings,
Bev Bojarski
p.s.  Michael taught me that Romance is about caring for and nuturing a special relationship, like he did with his son.  It is not just something done between a man and his sweetheart.  I never understood the title to that movie, Romancing the Stone, until Michael explained this.

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