Listening to Your Body’s Hunger Signals

Listening to Your Body’s Hunger Signals:
Our bodies send clear signals telling us when to eat and when to stop – but are we listening?
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I was talking with a new client the other day and I asked her to describe her appetite.  She thought for a minute, then told me, “I can’t really say that I ever get hungry.”  She ate frequently throughout the day (maybe a little too frequently), and on a fairly set schedule.  So she relied on the clock – not her hunger – to tell her when it was time to eat.  And when I asked her how she knew when she’d had enough –that it was time to stop eating – she was completely stumped.  “I don’t have a clue,” she said.  “I’ve never really thought about it.”
When I ask questions like this, what I hope to hear someone say is that they eat when they feel hungry and stop eating when they feel satisfied – not stuffed – and their hunger is gone.  But when clients tell me that they don’t get hungry – or that the signal to stop eating is that “there’s no food left” – it tells me that when their body is speaking to them, they’re just not listening.
Your body sends clear and unmistakable signals when it needs attention.  You know what it means when your mouth is dry, your eyelids are heavy or your bladder is full.  And while you might be able to ignore those signals for a little while – sooner or later you’ll be driven to drink something, get some sleep, or make a trip to the restroom.
If you think of hunger and fullness the same way – as clear signals from your body that it’s time to eat or time to stop – it can really help to regulate your how much food you eat.  To be fair, not everyone feels hunger quite the same way – most feel a little rumble in the stomach, but some get a little lightheaded or their thinking gets fuzzy when their blood sugar dips between meals.  But these are still very clear signals coming from within – your body is telling you that it’s getting low on fuel. And when your stomach begins to fill, nerve impulses are sent to the brain, telling you that you’re satisfied – at which point, it’s appropriate to stop.
When we’re thirsty, we generally will drink – not to excess – but until our bodies tell us that we’re not thirsty any more.  But when you eat, do you stop eating when you’re not hungry any more? Or do you stop because you’re stuffed?  Or do you stop because your plate is empty, or because you’ve scraped the last helping out of the serving plate?
Learning to recognize your body’s natural signals of hunger and satisfaction – and responding appropriately – are skills worth practicing.  Try keeping a food diary for a couple of days.  Each time you eat, rate your hunger on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 means you’re weak and starving, and 10 means you’re so stuffed you almost feel sick) both before you start eating and after you’ve finished.  Ideally, you want to start eating when your hunger is at about a 3 or 4 – your stomach is growling a little and you feel ready to eat – and you want to stop when you’re at about a 5 or 6, which means that you’re satisfied and pleasantly full.
It’s amazing how this little exercise can help to put you back in touch with your body. When your body starts to tell you it needs fuel, don’t ignore the signals.  If your usual habit is to let yourself get too hungry (a 1 or 2 on your hunger scale), you’re likely to overeat (hitting a 9 or 10).  Train yourself to eat just enough so that you’re comfortable, satisfied and no longer hungry – not until you’re stuffed.
Written by Susan Bowerman, MS, RD, CSSD. Susan is a paid consultant for Herbalife.

 

The Scaredy Cat – An Excerpt from Courage: Overcoming Fear & Igniting Self-Confidence

The Scaredy Cat

An Excerpt from Courage: Overcoming Fear & Igniting Self-Confidence

By Debbie Ford

From as far back as I can remember, they used to call me Scaredy Cat. I was known as little scrawny Debbie Ford who hid beneath her mother's dress, ran from anyone who wanted to say hello, and could never fall asleep without the lights on. Always in fear that somebody was going to leap out of the shadows and hurt me, I learned to hide in corners and sneak peeks at what was going on around me. I wasn't more than two years old before I became the neighborhood child who got teased, taunted, and made the brunt of too many stupid pranks. I was vulnerable and scared. I was the youngest of three children and found out early on that no one was going to protect me. It was clear by my third birthday that my older sister, whom I idolized, and my brother, whom I believed to be my savior, were bored with my Scaredy Cat act and wished I would grow up and be normal like them.

As I got older, I learned that scaredy cats weren't widely accepted. Just like with my brother and sister, I could see that my guarded and anxious persona wasn't very appealing out in the world. I wanted to be strong and confident but instead I was suspicious and fearful. Everything about who I was embarrassed me. I was awkward and yet wanted nothing more than to fit in and have the confidence of my older sister Arielle. With her long dark hair, she was the shining star who never seemed to be bothered by anything. I began a search to discover how I could feel that way too.

Controlled by my fear and my deeply ingrained insecurities, I made a dramatic decision to turn into the girl that I thought others wanted me to be, not the girl that I was. I began to cover up my authentic, kind nature with a new "I don't give a crap" attitude. And my warm and loving heart quickly grew cold, turning away from feelings of playfulness, affection, and compassion and toward cynicism and belligerence. The pain, humiliation and fear drove me to become someone other than who I was. I created an outer shell that would protect me and yet separate me from my inner truth. But it was a price I was willing to pay. I no longer would have access to the real me as I became a self-hater who lost the courage to feel her emotions or to be seen as she was.

By my early 20's, I had, I believe, successfully created an outer image that would trick even the best investigator. But after years of working that façade, it cracked open once again when I lost control of the drugs I had started using to fuel my false confidence. I became a pretty girl with a bad problem, otherwise known as a drug addict. When I knew I would have to get help or die, I checked into one drug treatment center after another. When I knew that I had finally reached my last chance, I let go and, as life would have it, I found peace. On the dirty bathroom floor of my fourth drug treatment center, I connected with a power greater than myself. For the first time, I went from scared, insecure, lonely, and weak to peaceful, present, and confident.

This connection happened in just a few moments. Without drugs, sugar, a man, or money, I found the courage to fight my addiction and win the internal war that was waging within. I found my power and inner strength, and for the first time in my life, I felt free and knew that I had discovered the golden key to confidence and courage. When I finally got up off that bathroom floor, I knew that all along I had been missing something inside myself - this inner connection. This power hidden within me was trying to deliver a message that would change my life.

Now I love and nurture the Scaredy Cat part of myself. I don't try to make it go away or be anything other than what it is -- a part of me that carries my fear. When I fail to acknowledge and have compassion for my fearful self, I wind up in a downward spiral of negativity. Sound familiar? When I acknowledge my fear and stay open to the gifts that it holds, I have access to the confidence and courage that I need to be authentically who I am.

Although suppressed fear is the culprit behind terrible suffering, when fear is embraced it acts as the fuel that propels you into a world of courage and confidence. Befriended fear is a worthy ally urging us to move forward in the areas of our lives where we are unfulfilled or emotionally challenged.

If fear is stopping you from reaching your goals, getting the love you want, asking for what you need or being bold and audacious to be the powerful you that you were born to be, then there is only one thing missing, and that is courage. I'm excited to share the process I've outlined in my new book Courage: Overcoming Fear and Igniting Self-Confidence with you: Click here to get all the details.

Biography

Debbie Ford is a New York Times bestselling author of nine books and an internationally acclaimed teacher, speaker, transformational coach, film-maker and expert in the field of personal transformation. She has guided tens of thousands of extraordinary people to learn to love, trust and embrace all of who they are. Debbie is the founder of The Ford Institute for Transformational Training, the renowned personal and professional training organization which offers emotional and spiritual education based on her body of work to individuals and organizations around the world. She is also the creator and leader of The Shadow Process Retreat.

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