Month: November 2012

Bev Bojarski, Cornwall, Ontario, Canada

CHAPTER 11
THE MYSTERY OF SEX TRANSMUTATION
The Tenth Step toward Riches
When transmuting (which is changing or transferring), the emotion of sex to another element or form of energy, a Powerful, Priceless tool is formed.  This is a tool or weapon fashioned that can overcome obstacles and propel me into action to accomplish my Heart’s Desire!  It is capable of lifting me to a higher level of thought, enabling me to master the sources of worry and petty annoyance that can usually affect me.  It keeps me focused on positive thoughts and emotions because I am using the 3 chord, strongest bond of Love, Sex and Romance! 
Faulty programming from the past has made this a difficult lesson to learn.  Sex is and was a dirty word to many, because it was taken out of the area where it was created for…marriage.  Sex is God ordained!  He created it as a beautiful and wondrous gift for mankind!  The emotion of sex is an irresistible force and when driven by this emotion, men (and I dare say, women) become gifted with a super power for action.
Don’t stifle or quench your sixth sense, which is Creative Imagination at work.  This has been a lesson I have learned.  I am developing through use, my sixth sense, I am learning to stop, be in the present moment and LISTEN to it, I have trust and faith that it is Accurate.  When I realized that this too is a gift from God, that I am actually accessing a direct link with God when exercising my creative imagination, my sixth sense, I felt the power and the peace which it brings to me.
I watch my husband and how he works at his job.  He’s a great salesman, in fact he is rated #2 across Canada with Staples.  I take pride in that now, even more as I realize that his love for me and our relationship has been a major factor in his success.  He also preaches for our little congregation and he shines there too.  We still hold hands and will even occasionally kiss in public, after 39 years of marriage.  Love like this transcends time and space it is part of our souls and that is so powerful!
I was impressed with the take on personal magnetism, which is in itself, sex energy.  I related it to my husband as well as to myself.  In my Network Marketing company one of the things we are encouraged to do is to meet people face to face and give them a card with information about our main product.  I did something a little different the last time I went out to hand out cards, I applied these 5 steps:  1.  The hand shake (firm and pleasant), 2.  The tone of voice, which is a Very Important one (I applied enthusiasm), 3.  The vibrations of thought (don’t go out with a bad mood…I said my self-talk until I was mentally sending out good vibrations) and 5.  Body adornment (this one was a push, I like to be comfortable, I dressed up aiming for a pleasant and professional look).  Wow, what a difference this made, I felt good, instead of intimidated, I was positive, friendly and confident.  Whether it results in anything or not, it did make me feel better about myself, what I was doing and what I was offering, hence I would call it successful!
I lost both of my parents in the past 3 years.  My memories of them still sustain and lift me up.  I only remember and focus on the good times, the wonderful feeling of love they had for the Lord, for each other, for their children and for all of their surrogate children and people they helped over the years.  My parents were the epitome of hospitality.  They didn’t have much but besides their six children they cared for many and shared with many others.  They had Big Hearts and Big Love.  People always remembered how Mom and Dad made them feel.  Loved and wanted.
Memories of love never pass.  They linger, guide and influence you long after the source is gone.
Love is without question, Life’s Greatest Experience.  It brings one into communion with God.  The emotions of love, sex and romance are sides of the eternal triangle of achievement-building genius.  Nature creates genii through no other force!!!
Blessings,
Bev Bojarski
p.s.  Michael taught me that Romance is about caring for and nuturing a special relationship, like he did with his son.  It is not just something done between a man and his sweetheart.  I never understood the title to that movie, Romancing the Stone, until Michael explained this.

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Marsha Sortino - Boston, MA

The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
I've come more to understand this chapter now since coming back from New York as I know this is what I experienced.
One way to explain sex transmutation is to transfer your sex energy into a state of mind that is an emotional high.  I can compare it to two people in love and the romance they begin on their journey of discovering.  We have all heard or read about great romances and the extremes these people take to reach their lovers.  No mountains, no rivers, no oceans will keep these people apart.  They will find a way to be together and/or at least profess their love for each other.  It's the loving romantic stirring of the soul at work.
It's also that feeling I get when I say my self talk.  It arouses in me my burning desire to take the action I need to fulfill my desire, that slight edge I take everyday.
It's passionate and vibrant energy that oozes when I think about the things and people I love.  It's what makes my world look and feel magical. Literally, you are romancing the world when you feel this energy.  And I must admit, I love my business and network marketing, so it is a business, you might say, that also brings out the romance in my world also, when I take all my heightened energy and focus it into my business and people.
You feel it and people are receptive to this unstoppable energy because you are vibrating at this highest emotional level.
I went to New York for the week on a business trip last week to help someone who asked for my help as driving is a restriction for him. So I agreed to be the driver. I went there with the determination of a super star. 
I felt exuberant and alive, so full of passionate energy that the universe completely opened up.  There wasn't a moment when it said NO.  It was Yes the whole time we did business.
We had an organized plan to start with, but it seemed that creative imagination also took over, and we did deviate a bit allowing it to lead us.  And lead us it did.  It was like taking a magical journey attracting the right people at the right time and who were so open to receiving.
I mean it's not everyday that the business owner will be available to speak with when you walk in the door, especially on a weekend.  But every single business we walked into, we got to speak with the owner.
How could we tell we were vibrating at this emotional level? First, we felt it and we could tell by the warm reception we received.  And when you have business owners asking you to come sit at this table and take time out of their schedule to speak with us, I'd say that our energy was attracting.
Yes, I am beginning to understand the mystery of sex transmutation, the power surrounding it.
And I am positive that we attracted this energy and others were attracted to this energy. Did we vibrate at this high frequency of energy?  Absolutely - we were this energy that people were attracted to. 
And I also amazed myself with speaking and LISTENING.  I listened so intently, something I learned to do here at MFF.
That week, we literally breathed life into our business venture and we enjoyed it so much that we couldn't stop thinking or talking about it.
Sexual transmutation- you can take this energy of sexual expression into every aspect of your life and transmute it by channeling its energy into a form of creativity.  Thus a genius is born.  The experience is extraordinary and so uplifting.
I owe so much thanks for our successful weekend to MFF and our mastermind group.  There is no doubt in my mind that all this happened because of the superb mentoring and training I receive.  The courage, the self confidence, and teamwork I experienced on this trip are second to none and it is all because of my personal development and growth here at MFF.
Thank you Micheal & Linda, Brian & Gayle and the entire master mind group.
Much love and appreciation,
Marsha Sortino

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Frank LooSer (Sarge) Nashville, TN

After much study and contemplation over the subject of Sex Transmutation,
I have come to believe there is no greater path to genius than through
voluntary self-effort!  Having said that let me qualify it by saying, it’s because
I now understand how anybody can attain great heights of success in their
financial and business endeavors by incorporating sex energy, through what
Hill calls sex transmutation.  However history is polluted with case after case
where one’s character derailed their ability to maintain control of and to enjoy
the fruits of their labor, because of a self-centered urge for physical pleasure.
By eliciting the emotion of love one can balance character to promote the
artistic and the aesthetic nature of the human species, therefore leaving
its lasting impression on the souls of man, long after the flame has been
extinguished through time and circumstances.  Love is, without question
the greatest emotional experience in life.  It brings one into alignment with
the trinity of infinite intelligence.  Love when mixed with the emotions of
romance and sex, can lead one far up the ladder of creative genius. 
The concept of Mentoring for Free was brought about through sex transmutation
coupled with the emotions of love and romance.  Through voluntary self-effort
Michael and Linda Dlouhy annualized their past, present and future experiences
to ascertain their WHY, and then united that WHY with the love they have
for people.  The outcome was the greatest personal development system the
world of Network Marketing has ever known.  The real beauty of the system
is you don’t have to be a Network Marketer to benefit from it, because anybody can
plug in to learn and develop.  Once you figure out your why this system will assist
you in achieving it. When a person is able to transmute their desire for
achievement into the equivalent of pursuing the urge to satisfy a sexual desire
nothing can stop them.  People fail because of a weak WHY!
How strong is yours? 
Prosperous Regards,
Frank LooSer

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Bob Shoaf Alamogordo, NM

CHAPTER 11
THE MYSTERY OF SEX TRANSMUTATION
The Tenth Step toward Riches
This chapter is very interesting.  I had no idea the emotion of sex had such an influence on the outcomes of human desire.
I have read that Henry Ford's wife was the major influence early in Henry's automotive career.  Ford was in his kitchen building a carburetor.  He needed a part and didn't have the money for it.  Mrs. Ford reminded him of their money in savings.  Henry said, we can't use that.  That money is for building a house.  Mrs. Ford said, they could replace it later, but Henry was against using that money.  She said, well we are good for it, right?  Henry agreed and took money out of savings, purchased the part and the rest is history.  Without Mrs. Ford's influence, the Ford Motor company would probably not exist.
Hill says, "Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires.  When driven by this desire, men develop keeness of imagination, courage, will power, persistence and creative ability unknown to them at other times."
In my own life, I can relate to the influence of my wife, Lucy.  If it hadn't been for her I'd probably not enrolled in college.  I wouldn't have graduated from college and worked in my chosen professions, Computer Science and Mathematics for over 30 years.
Hill says history is filled with records of great leaders whose achievements may be traced directly to the influence of women who aroused the creative facilities of their minds, through the stimulation of sex desire.
Napoleon Bonaparte was one of these men.  There have been many Americans who have achieved great heights under the stimulating influence of a women, only to fall back when they put aside the old wife for a new one.  There were many others of outstanding achievement, each of whom was known to have been of a highly sexed nature.
When the emotion of romance is added to those of love and sex, the obstructions between the finite mind of man and Infinite Intelligence are removed.
Then a genius has been born.
Thanks Michael for helping me do more than I thought possible.
Bob Shoaf

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Russ Aker, Portland, Oregon, USA

Chapter 11.  The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
The Tenth Step toward Riches
As he opens this chapter, Napoleon Hill suggests, Sex desire is
the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire,
people develop keenness of imagination, courage, willpower,
persistence, and CREATIVE ABILITY unknown to them at other
times.  When harnessed, and redirected  this motivating force
maintains all of its attributes, which may be used as powerful
creative forces in any profession or calling, including, of course,
transmuting ones desires to their physical equivalent.
We all know, as Hill says, “sexual expression is inborn and
natural.  It should not be hidden or eliminated but given an outlet
through other forms of expression that enrich the mind body
and spirit.”
The feelings and emotions should be expressed.  Hill gives this
analogy.  “A river may be dammed, and its water controlled for a
time, but eventually, it will force an outlet. The same is true of the
emotion of sex. It may be submerged and controlled for a time, but
its very nature causes it to be ever seeking means of expression.
If it is not transmuted into some creative effort it will find a less
worthy outlet. Fortunate, indeed, is the person who has discovered
how to give sex emotion an outlet through some form of creative
effort, for they have, by that discovery, lifted themselves to the
status of a genius.”
Hill gives a list of the 10 most powerful stimulus of the mind where
he feels is created an intensity of enthusiasm, creative imagination
and intense desire.  He lists “Autosuggestion” as number
eight.  I think we could move it to number one.  Through positive
“Autosuggestion’ we can cause ourselves to transmute these other
stimuli into a more creative or useful environment.  Through
autosuggestion we can even curb or stop the action of #9 fear and
#10 use of narcotics and alcohol…
I have a new men-tee.  He expressed to me the following after he
started participation at Mentoring for Free; he was finding it hard
to fall asleep.  He was bombarded by 100’s of random thoughts of
developing success in network marketing, growing faith that these
new skills will positively transmute his dreams to their physical
equivalent.  I mentioned this chapter and said, this may sound odd
at first but I asked him to think back at his first experiences as a
young man experiencing his first date and attraction to a young
woman.  How after that date his thoughts were going crazy
regarding what he had said, what he didn’t say, what he did, what
he didn’t do and what kind of relationship he hoped would develop
and how those thoughts kept him awake at night and distracted
his mind during the day.  I explained, these are the same strong
feelings you feel today being transmuted to more productive thought,
they just need to be focused.  It did not take him but a moment to
see the link.  As a young person the desire is directed more to the
physical.  Through maturity and the introduction of these new ideas
that desire was being redirected unbeknownst to him and transmuted
to an action that will lift him higher.  When one becomes aware that
this principle is available to them they can begin to consciously
redirect the enthusiasm.
In that regard a married or single person could be transmuting that
same desire of sex, love, personal or family security through
financial gain and friendship with others.  In other words they
would be transmuting a good share of these stimuli to attain their
dreams and transmuting them into a physical equivalent. 
Because these stimuli are infinite, we do not have to give them up
in this transmutation, only redirect and harness a certain amount
of their power to use for other worthy activity.
In this book on page 165 Hill mentions the type and professions
where one will find those who more naturally posses the ability to
transmute this power without being aware of it.  Most people do
not have this natural ability.  Hill says the transmutation of sex
energy calls for more will power than the average person cares to
use for this purpose.  The good news is those who find it difficult
to summon will-power sufficient for transmutation, may gradually
acquire this ability.  Although it does require at least some will-power,
the reward for the practice is more than worth the effort.
Hill states on page 168, “the road to genius consists of the
development, control and use of sex, love and romance in a
productive way…the process is as follows:  Encourage the
presence of these emotions as the dominating thoughts in one’s
mind, and discourage the presence of all the destructive emotions.
The mind is a creature of habit. It thrives upon the dominating
thoughts fed it” so nourish it with Stimuli # 8, Autosuggestion, AKA
positive affirmation and self-talks.
Russ Aker
Portland, Oregon

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