Chapter 5 specialised knowledge
As stated within this chapter we do not need to possess all the knowledge for our job or role. The thing is we need to know where to get that knowledge and a way to use it. I have spent a few years relearning a number of things owing to the limiting beliefs developed.
I have had to learn the way to save, a way to be able to stop being scared of people again and to stop being hurt by those things which I love, also a new diet and the best way to work within my own health as a person.
It’s been a matter of daily choice and it’s still early days yet, however I have chosen to stop creating pain for myself. It’s a matter of work and living here, yes there is pain from those things which love the most family and friends. Yet also those things that am passionate about also. Yet I must stop allowing it to hold me back, I have spent years searching for love. I can either let those things continue to hurt me although they are in my life constantly or let it go. Yet it was all right under my nose.
However my efforts quite often failed owing to being unable to love myself, also its been learning to be myself and accept myself as I am. I had literally come to hate the true me owing to listening to others opinions and then stopping being myself.
The hardest part was that at 17 I never knew what I wanted, never knew what fun was for me as a person as was unable to explore myself. Yet I also discovered many things about myself in my late teens, at 17 I was advised that my back had 4 discs which had failed to form correctly. The hardest part was that it was life for me, meaning that had to find a way to live with that and weak muscles over the years. I have had to turn to people and say look what do I do to live the best life I can. What can I do to keep these muscles as strong as I can.
The basic thing is eat as best as I can, keep as active as I can, exercises twice a day, the gym 3 days a week. Its taken that 5 years in network marketing to learn the best way to keep my health as best as I can to feel am able to be open about such. I only discovered this through getting to know myself and being persistant with what had to do.
The process has been learning from others about what is necessary to keep that health going and what is best for my diet. When I entered my company for the 2nd time I knew the products worked and had been failing for many years, I would do the work yet however it was my self confidence and hating the real me that was knocking me out of the park. Both were hard as I had suppressed myself and it was only though mentoring for free and acknowledging myself and who I was that allowed me to let my true self appear.
It’s a journey there have been a number of obsticles which have had to overcome many which people were unaware of. Some of which never spoke of about what was going on or how it was, yes relationships and health are hard. Yet I now know that I have to work daily on both, its taken the specialised knowledge of the colours trainings to get to realise who people were as a person. Its also taken learning to love myself again.
There was a quote which came around recently that is very applicable from Brian Tracey’s daily quotes email “If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.”
— Frank A. Clark
To me this is very true we have a path in life which when without any obsticles it gets no where. When we encounter obsticles because of our love, our belief within ourselves then we must keep up the belief that we will get there. Leaning on our own yet also others knowledge and being able to get such from people as we need it.
We have to be open to asking questions and showing people who we are. Michael has a lot of specialised knowledge on network marketing such as do the other leaders in mentoring for free, we must learn where to get such from and to keep faith that with work we will get. I know I can do such and now I must learn from not only Michael and the others who have that knowledge which I am seeking as a person. Its asking and saying can you answer this for me.
Thank you to Michael, Willena and ken for your mentoring and guidance, your love support and encouragement and willingness to assist. Thank you to the mental cleanse participants for your lessons which inspire me.
Abundent love
Ben Drake
Mona Vale Sydney NSW Australia
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