Month: July 2012

Chapter 9 Persistence

This is a powerful chapter personaly and combined with last week’s chapter on decision it has helped me to grow even more. For many years I have persisted in the search for love, to find someone who cared enough about me to put their judgements aside. For many years I have saught a intermite relationship with someone who was prepared to accept me as a person.

For many years I was unable to see myself in any such relationship littleown a parent owing to the false programming of many critical friends and family members. Health, weight, who was as a person all contributed to such. I took it all on board, the issue became that I got lost trying to be someone who I was not because I was seeking their approval as a person.

Secretly I lived in fear because of people ridiculing me for the love which I had as a person, this has cost me many friends as they were unable to understand my intense love for others. How much I cared about people as a whole. It has taken years to realise that myself who I truly am as a person because I was so hurt and the pain of my own past which was being constantly played out in my own head.

The pain was so intense that I literally internalised and hated myself for being unable and unwilling to stick up for myself. To say that is unacceptable, when I did often it was ignored or ridiculed. Despite such I continued to search for someone who truly cared and then I came to the mental cleanse a real growth curve for myself and I have persisted.

Anyway after many years being unable to find someone who truly cared I managed to find someone who cared enough about me as a person. They have shown me they care so much, although its been rough and its going to take work. I am determined to make this work, for me the ultimate was never things. It was a family of my own, my own kids. Being a father was my dream and somehow some way I am going to make that happen.

The hardest part was I never fully understood or knew how I would be able to provide for a family of my own with the state of health at times, for me my company came to me at a time when I needed to change my health and I am glad about that. I have persisted and know that it has the ability to provide what is needed. Its now working on that intermit relationship, its time for me to do that and to be able to have a family of my own.

Yes I know people may be unhappy about such, yet its my own life and I have chosen to do such. I have to walk away from those people who are going to constantly drag me down as a person.

Thank you to Michael, linda, Willena, Ken for your mentoring guidance and love. Your acceptance and support. Thank you to the wonderful mental cleanse participents who inspire me to be who am as a person again.

I love you all so much,

Ben Drake

Mona Vale, Sydney NSW Australia

Personal lesson plan on chapter 9 for the 30 day mental cleanse.

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CHAPTER 9
PERSISTENCE: THE SUSTAINED EFFORT NECESSARY TO INDUCE FAITH
The Eighth Step toward Riches
Persistence is easy . . . if I can say so at Mentoring for Free.
We have so many things that we have been given that we didn't have before Mentoring for Free.
We finally have someone to talk to who listens here in our mentors and in Michael and Linda. For
the first time we can make mistakes until we get it right. Most of us know too that there are enough
struggling networkers out there that all we have to do is find the one's that were meant to be
in our lives.
M - Many Mentors, Mental Cleanse, Michael and Linda, Mastermind
E - Experience from Michael and Linda and everyone in the Mastermind
N - Network Marketing training is free
T - Ten free calls a week, Think & Grow Rich Training, Tools that Work
O - Outstanding system to record leads and data
R - Recipe that works.
I - Induces faith - we need Faith to be persistant
N - New and better way of meeting business builders
G - Great Self-Esteem, Great business success, Great place to meet friends and influence people
F - Free, Free, Freedom!
O - Orderly plan of attack, orderly conference calls.
R - Reliable system to generate leads
F - Family that we choose
R - Relief after working with heavy hitters
E - Excellent Community of people with positive dreams and goals
E - Employee mentality is GONE!
Acrostics! Oh well! I love Mentoring for Free, and I thank Michael and Linda for the positive family environment that they have created.
Love to all,
Lois Anna

Lesson plan from Lois Anna on chapter 9 for the 30 day mental cleanse.

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Chapter 9 - Persistence
The consistency of my persistence has always been an essential factor in manifesting my desires.
The lack of my achievement is the result of my consistency in follow through. Most of us
have another life and or job outside of our part time Network Marketing business. We became
Network Marketers because we saw the plan and got excited in the possibilities of what it
could do for us and how it could change our lives.
No matter how much time I am able to dedicate to my business I have to be consistent in
the things I do to be persistent, so I keep a list of the things I do so that I can measure my
persistence on a daily, weekly and monthly basis.
Hill says that willpower and desire when aligned make an irresistible pair. Men who accumulate
great fortunes have been known as cold blooded and ruthless, but very often they are
misunderstood. What they have is willpower mixed with persistence backed by a burning desire
to attain their objectives. And it’s their self-image that allows them to be this way. So don’t
worry what others think when you are striving to reach your goals.
No matter where I am in my goals and plans, staying consistent and persistent is asking myself
daily what can I do right now that will move my business forward.
Its already laid out for us to achieve success. Just follow the MFF recipe and remain plugged in
and consistent with your persistence and you will succeed at whatever goals you have set for
yourself.
Much thanks to Michael and Linda for setting up the recipe for us to follow.
Best regards,
Sarge

Lesson plan from Frank LooSer on chapter 9 for the 30 day mental cleanse.

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