A very interesting thing is that you cannot force someone to love you just as you want. You may want another someone to love you as a lover; however ultimately you are unable to make them love you just the way you want them to. People choose to fall in and out of love by choosing to no longer commit to a relationship or a friendship. They choose to say I do not want your friendship anymore and many other things. Now the hard part is that some people may love you but suddenly choose to no longer love you for who you are.

Love is about choice, you must choose to love that person everyday or it is not going to work at all. Therefore, love is about choice. When you wake up having been abused or hurt by someone whom you live with then it does not help the love or relationship at all; once someone starts abusing or hurting someone else owing to no love then it makes it very hard, the people who put you down are the ones who do not love themselves. They do not know love themselves and find it hard to show it to others.

In order to love someone else you have to be able to love yourself your good and bad points. Yet also forgive those who have really hurt you. The pain may still be there yet you have to release that hurt as a person. Ultimately, you cannot force anyone to love you no matter what happens. The person must choose to love you as a person.

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