Essentially, we become a product of those who we listen to; however, those who we listen to as a person are the people who shape us to become that person who we have to become for our future. These people teach us to become they person who we have to be. Some of us grow up in a home where love had to come from another person treated badly, others grow up in a home where love is constant however we treated poorly and need to learn things again.

There are people who try to condition us into the person they want us to be owing to the fact that they believe she should be more like them or that they can make us in their image. Some people even think they are doing the right thing for us however, they are hurting us. Some people will use various tactics to get us to do what they want without realising that it could be in fact hurting us more then they realise. They may even like the person who we used to be, it is hard when someone does not accept some else after they have changed something about themselves.

This could be regaining their health; it could be that they do not do a normal job. These people want that person to be just like them, they may not love themselves so they work on conditioning that person to become more like them. Some people do not want others to grow up or are jealous of losing someone they love. However in this case they quite often drive a wedge between themselves and that person who they love forcing the person to walk away.

Some people’s influence on us can be positive others negative. When we hang around good positive people then our life goes forward, however when we hang around bad people then our lives go downhill. This is how we are shaped that we essentially become the product of our environment and another person’s influences on us. We therefore need to learn from these experiences and become that person who we had to become for our future selves.

Would you like to learn how to create better relationships, you can down load our free eBook or you can visit to be mentored for free on how you can create those lifelong relationships which will help propel your life forwards.

Call or email anytime

Ben Drake