This is one of the most powerful things. When you think of success it comes to you; however, when you think of failure it is drawn to you. When you believe someone is going to hurt you, the person does. Each of us designs our own lives, we are at the mercy of our own thoughts however, we can literally learn to program our own minds and become successful. People live in fear owing to what they have been trained to do as a person. They have been programmed since a young age by their influences. These influences may be parents, co-workers or simular.
The good thing is that we are able to change this just by learning to program our own mind clean out the junk and work to achieve success in whatever calling it may be that we want to achieve or be successful. As a person, we choose what success may mean to each of us, so essentially we design our own lives. We say how many kids we are going to have, what we want to do in our own lives. We say this is who I am going to marry, most of it is already determined the choices we are to make and what we are going to do about such. We may at times not even realise what is going on yet we know that is what we want to do as a person.
Sometimes the person needs to be ready to do what they have to do. For me it took me 3 years working on myself to get to the stage where I found something I was able to work with, having seen myself grow as a person during these last 7 months now it’s been amazing and wonderful. Anyway, each person has his or her own learning curve, we all learn differently. However, we essentially do control our own lives and are responsible for our own actions.
Some people do not realise they created this mess themselves, others do. We all pull what we think about towards us, so essentially we all design our own lives, our future, our family, our relationships everything. Some people have driven fear in us so that they can remain in control. There is nothing we can do about such. Some people do not listen or hear what another person has to say. They do so by choice thinking I know everything. These people who do not listen are the ones who can destroy others lives and think they are so smart. Essentially, we must no longer let that programming control us from those people who have treated us badly and move on. That is when you design your own life and become better. It can take years to do so; it depends on what has happened. Yet we must all take control our own lives no matter what.
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