This just happens to be a very interesting topic; we have to think about all the different factors. Unfortunately, someone who does not respect themselves quite often has little respect for others. Abusing and bullying someone as per telling them to shut up, even telling them off when they are speaking or not allowing them to even speak is saying I do not respect you. The person ultimately has little respect for himself or herself when the person is putting someone else down.

Abuse and bullying is a form of control, the person is trying to control you as a person. The person has no control of their own life so they are trying to take control of someone else’s lives so that they can start to feel better about themselves. They think making another person feel small or worse off is going to make them feel better as a person. However, these people often only feel better temporarily. The best way to deal with this to no longer push others around, and not to control them at all. To work on not being in control of another person’s life and expecting him or her to listen to what you must say.

The thing you must do is stop and think about what you have to say rather than saying the first things that come into your own mouth. This is the best solution for people who can tend to push others around. Also to think about your words before saying anything at all.

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