This is never easy for anyone healing from the pain of a trauma or simular. However, it just happens to be something that is part of live, healing from those painful memories is different for each person. In order to heal we need to express that pain with people whom we trust, so that our pain is able to be worked on. This takes a lot of trust in the person to be able to work through some of that large past pains. Sometimes it takes work and time; sometimes the pain happens to of been locked away until that person is ready to heal from such.
Getting over these past problems can take years of therapy for people; whist other people will need loads of support. It really depends on the person as to what works and does not, sometimes it takes counselling and the love of a wonderful partner to allow them to heal. Different things work for different people and it just takes work and time for people to heal. Everyone has a different way of dealing with his or her pain. Everyone has to find a way to leave that pain behind no matter what.
As I said it does mean counselling along with lots of love for someone to really heal from a very traumatic experience as a person. It really depends on the person as a whole as to what they need.
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