Quite often, we may be offered opportunities to do something. It is about finding a way to do such and making the time for that which is important to you. When a friend is important to you then you will find some way to communicate with that person. You will somehow make the time to communicate with them, to get that study done which needs to be done. An example is financial independence, when that is important to you, then you work towards its achievement. Although though it may take time, when financial independence is important, you somehow find a way to start achieving such. When you want to find love then you somehow find a way to achieve that goal. You search for it, show you are serious about achieving that goal.
That is what we are doing when we find a way to talk to someone or achieve a goal. We are going ok this is important to me and I am going to do it no matter what. You have to want to do such and make sure you have committed the time needed to such. When you have a goal, which you really want to achieve then no matter what you often find a way. This is about making sure the person is focused and ready to achieve that goal. No matter what when we are not committed we do not find the time, we let all the excuses get in our way.
Sometimes they are genuine and we need to accept that. Someone may apologise for the delay owing to being busy and needing to write the response, however he or she found the time. Someone who does not care does not find the time. They let things pile up and have to be asked to do such regularly. The let the chores go by, they shirk responsibility and do not find a way. It may be they have a lot on their mind or stressed, sure stress does make me forget things. Yet I do my best to make sure I remember what I have to do. However, we need to be responsible and commit to that final situation or we will never do it.
That is where we need to have a powerful motive as to why we want to talk to that person or do that that thing. When it is weak, everything gets in the way.
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