As I sat there reading one of my current readers recently titled Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. Essentially the book is about financial management and financial independence, however it’s a book on lessons of the rich and how to become successful. It teaches us what you need to do to become successful. One thing that really stuck out was the part that it’s not people that are pushing you around its life. Life is saying to you look there is something I want you to learn; you need to learn this for your future. Most people don’t realise that during those rough times they are being taught a lesson or someone is being guided by the universe to teach them a lesson as a person. These lessons can be both good and bad. Often the lessons will have a meaning.
Everyone grows up learning from what experiences they have, we are taught our financial management strategy's from our primary carers, you are taught about relationships and given those skills through them too. Quite often life is using that person as a conduit to teach you something, it may be teaching you about commitment as a person. It may be trying to show you that you are ready for that next phase of your own life. Other times you are being taught how to be stronger or the skills which you are going to need in the future. Sometimes it may take 3 years, 17 years or life to realise the extent of these lessons which life is offering. There is no way to tell and to know how long those lessons will take.
People learn from their experiences as a person, I am sure that people can remember what it is like to really care about someone and what it’s like when they are gone. That is hard yet losing someone who we love teaches us a lesson, you have to think about what you are being taught when these lessons appear. When you resist the change then you are resisting the lesson which is being offered to you by that other person, yes it’s hard when you need to learn such. Some people get defensive when life is trying to teach you a lesson or say something however it’s who they are as people, nothing you can do about such at all.
The best vantage point is to take such as learning experience and learn what you have to as a person. Are you overworking, are you doing too much, are you not feeling loved. You never know what these lessons are.
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