Today there is a question which would like to ask. What makes you happy?
Me personally I know the answer to that question inside myself and its part of my why! It’s why I do this business and why I keep on going, what makes me personally happy is romancing someone and communicating with that special someone. Letting that person know how special they are. They are a great friend and someone who is a wonderful person, they may have had different experiences in life and well it’s what happens. Yet for me what makes me happy is romancing them, getting to know them as a person. Being able to show them they mean something to someone, that is what makes me really happy.
Often you need to find this and understand this about themselves, it’s quite often part of your why and who you are as a person. It may take some soul searching to find such yet when you know what makes you happy often you enjoy things more.
I have written a little about your why as a person, yet there are a number of questions which may help you find your own why in life. Quite often a person who knows their why is happy to deal with the issues as it means they are getting closer to their goal. As well these questions will help you know exactly what you are looking for or wanting from life. These questions are the following.
If you only had 24 hours to live what would you do?
If you knew you only had 1 month to live what would you do?
If you knew you only had 3 months to live what would you do?
If you knew you only had 6 months to live what would you do?
If you knew you only had 12 months to live what would you do?
If you knew you only had 3 years to live what would you do?
If you knew you only had 5 years to live what would you do?
If you had all the money and time needed what would you do?
If you had all the money you wanted what would you do?
Answering these questions may take work and time. Yet when you can answer them knowing what you would do then you know who you are as a person. Sometimes you need to look real deep within yourself to know exactly what really does make you happy or what you really want to achieve in your own life. Then you need to set some goals based on such. So what really makes you happy as a person, is it your work, is it your current relationship, a friendship or what.
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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake