Persistence, determination and commitment

Persistence, determination and commitment these are 3 very strong emotions, they are essentially cousins however they are all needed to achieve anything life. Persistence is having the faith to continue with that goal, whist determination is saying I will get that goal and commitment is the same thing. It's about knowing what you want and going for it.

Persistence is about knowing what you want and going for it no matter what, sticking with that goal through the rough times that's where determination and commitment come in. Its about being determined to see something through to the end as well as being committed to that end.

Business Jim Rohn put this so well in relation to being determined to get your goal, it shows the art of persistence and commitment also. The quote is.

"When you find your mountain in life go for it, some people will say no that mountain is to high, too rocky or to steep, you are not good enough". His response to this is "I am going to the top, you are either going to see me waving my flag from the top of that mountain or dead on the side as I am not coming back".

We call all learn something from this, its saying once you have chosen your goal and dream go for it. There will be people out there who are going to say you can't do such. Why do you not try this one or throw their negative rubbish at you. However the person who ultimately win's is the person who picks himself up and dusts himself off in those rough times. He does not quit on his way to his goal, now sure there will be times when they say oh this is too tough. I am not good enough. It's about working through those times and just going for it, continuing no matter what happens.

Sure the universe is going to test us to see how committed and persistent we are achieving that which we desire most. However when one is persistent, determined and committed and the universe knows that they are not giving up then that person receives that which they are asking for if they are prepared to pay the price which the universe does ask for achievement of that goal.

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Acceptance

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One thing that is vitally important in life is acceptance, not just by yourself others also. One of my greatest battles has been getting others to accept that I am who I am as a person. I have my own personal limits and tolerances what I am able to do as a person. We are essentially a product of our own upbringing that we are brought up to believe things by our own family as they think they may know best.

Some people literally refuse to accept others decisions in life. They refuse to accept that the person wants to work in a volunteer role, they refuse to accept that the person has chosen to do what they want, they refuse to accept the person getting married and living their own life. They think that they can control you or tell you want to do as a person. Part of my battle has been such, having people in my life that refused to accept my choice and decision.

It is my right to make that decision and my choice be it right or wrong no matter what. I recently made a major decision and well it's time to implement that decision, it's going to take work time and patience yet it is possible to achieve that goal. There is a way it's just finding such and going from there. For me things are moving forward it's just needing to take it as it comes and say well lets go.

Some people do not see the opportunity in front of them because they are so conditioned by their family or past that they do not notice it. Others know it's easiest to wait and say ok it's not good right now or I need to wait longer. This time I have to say that the time is right for me to do what has to be done.

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