November, 2010 • Coach Freedom and Friends

Who a person is around most of the time generally tends to be the person who has the most influence on a persons life. So if they are around people who drink constantly they drink constantly, if they are around drug users then they use drugs. Essentially what I am saying is no matter who a person hangs around they will rub off on that person. Now the best thing to do is to spend time with positive influences people whom will build you up and not tear you down.

Hang around those people who believe in you, encourage you and support you. Rather then those people who literally tear you down. The people who tear you down will at times force their own opinion on you. It is a hard thing yet sometimes the best thing you need to do is build up that wall of positivity and say nope I am not going to take this again. It’s finding those people who will build you up and encourage you as a person.

If you want to change your life then you need to be willing to make that change.

If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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Helping people change their lives

14/11/2010

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Helping people change their lives, ok so I am in the industry of relationships, yet essentially, I help people change their lives. I help people change their lives in many ways as bellow.

Helping people learn why they have not had the success they wanted in life

How to believe in themselves again – improving self worth and self esteem

How they can improve their health

How they can have better friendships and relationships with others

Helping people to find a business where they can work around their current commitments, which will allow them to be able to do those things that, they want to achieve or do in life. If that’s travelling the world with those who mean the most to them then great, if it’s romancing a woman ok, spending more time with their kids, everyone has a different motivation as to what they want from life

Finding your why as to what you really are meant to be doing in life or what makes a person a great person

Helping people to improve their current financial situation

Essentially I am happy to help anyone who is willing, teachable and coachable. They want to learn how to become better and improve their lives, essentially it is not easy to help someone change or improve their life if they are not each of the 3 willing, teachable and coachable. People may say I am teachable and coachable yet their actions suggest they are not. One thing I learnt is you can usually tell how committed and coachable a person is quite quickly by their actions. If they say they will do something and it great, if they say and it never gets done it shows where their priorities are as a person.

If you want to change your life then you need to be willing to make that change.

If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

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Faith

12/11/2010

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Faith it's about believing in something so much that you will it into existence. How so if you mix desire and faith together you get a deadly mix, a person can have anything he wants if he wants it bad enough and also believe in it enough. The thing you need to remember is that when you stop dreaming and believing in things then you start going downhill, you stop succeeding. When you have enough faith that something is going to happen then it will no matter what you say or do. Sometimes you need to develop that faith and find out what you really want from life, what really makes you happy as a person. Then once you have such you need to develop the faith that it's going to happen. You need to want it so bad and also see yourself in possession of the object which you desire. There are many good examples and books, however as I said before faith is believing in something so much that you naturally bring such into existence.

It's about setting your goals and making sure you stay on course to achieve such no matter what, faith is knowing you will get to that goal if you persist with it for long enough. Just remember though sometimes there may be a small piece of doubt which is holding you back from having enough faith. Sometimes you need to learn or change enough to become the person worth the goal which you are working towards.

If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

Desire

11/11/2010

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Desire wanting something bad enough, it's wanting that relationship wanting that friendship. That job wanting something so bad that you are prepared to pay the price for doing such, sometimes it does mean major sacrifices need to made. Sometimes it's choosing between one or the other, which is more important or can I do both? Sometimes it may mean cutting one short or only spending a little time at one commitment to make the other one also. Sometimes it's prioritizing what is important and unimportant; there is a saying "what so ever you so desire you shall have it". However know that you will be tested to see how committed you are to such.

So remember that no matter what you want from life you need to want it so bad that you are willing to give up whatever is asked as the price for such.

If you want to learn more about relationships http://bdrake.successin10steps.com/?mad=52669 some of the information is available from this eBook.

Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake

Month: November 2010

Influences who am I around, what are they doing to me?

Helping people change their lives

Faith

Desire