Focus

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One thing in life that a person needs to learn is focus, to focus on that goal they are going for no matter what. When you focus on something with all your effort then it is what you achieve. When you concentrate on that bad neglectful relationship then you continue in such, I was listening to a training this morning and realised hey this finally makes sense. I now understand how a few things happened in my life and what went on.

Essentially what this is saying when you focus on being abused you get abused. When you focus on success everything falls into place, the problem is that sometimes people change what they are focusing on so often that you do not achieve your goals or dreams. I know I have done it myself in the past changed my focus so often. These days I am focusing on one thing and that seems to be working, I am getting signals saying yes this is working. Ok you are doing the right things.

When you focus on a goal or a dream and making that your main focus and getting that dream achieved often you will achieve that goal. It means being persistent, determined and committed to achieving that goal. Back in march I was searching online for someone to create a connection with, I’d been searching for years yet seriously for the months prior had a couple of good people yet no connection. Then I found someone who became a good friend to me and I am glad.

I can remember looking through the paper 18 months ago now and saw an ad for people to do the role I currently do. When I went away recently I said to someone hey look I will get my turn and it will be a great job and an enjoyable time. That was true also. I ended up on a job which used my personal experience with the boat crew, now it’s about saying ok I will take care of this and do this. However you have to do this for me and I did that.

Focus is about knowing no matter what you are going to get that goal and just working towards doing such. Leaving it to happen also in its own time also and knowing no matter what that goal or dream will happen. When you focus on finding that special someone it happens, when you focus on that family it happens. When you focus on loving someone it happens, when you focus on becoming that person’s lover it happens, when you focus on being the partner, husband or wife of someone then it happens. However you personally have to be 100% in. No matter what or deals off, ok there will be sometimes things that say you need to sacrifice this or do this before such yet honestly they are quite often well worth such.

As I said before when your focus is on the past hurt then you end up being continually hurt as a person, when you focus on no longer being single or being with someone then it happens. However you need to be prepared to pay that price which is asked by the universe for this reward. There may be one big sacrifice which you need to make in order to achieve that goal and well it’s something that only you can say yes or no to.

When you focus though you can often end up with more than one goal having been achieved.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake