Being too trusting who does it hurt?

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Trust it’s a big thing in any relationship if that’s a friendship, a marriage, a couple (partners, lovers, boyfriend or girlfriend). There are so many types of relationships that it’s not easy to name them all, essentially we all have relationships in our lives. Every relationship always requires trust some require more trust the others a couple who are married or seeing each other need to trust each other deeply. Where as work colleagues may not need as much trust, they may have to trust others with their lives in professions others it’s not as necessary. Trust is a necessary part of team work, when you do not trust someone how do you have any relationship with them.

It is hard, when you really trust someone and they abuse the trust then it’s not them that gets hurt. It is usually the person who trusted them that gets hurt badly. People tend to learn a lesson too quickly about trust when someone else abuses or missuses their trust. I learnt that one quite some time ago, I am a very trusting person and yes someone abused the trust quite badly. The friendship will never be the same again, there is no way it ever can be the same again. Once someone has violated your trust it is an exceptionally hard to win that trust back. The person who violated the trust in the beginning has to somehow show they are trustable again and that takes work.

As I said trusting someone too much does hurt only the person who trusted the other person deeply. When any trust is broken it’s not good for the person who has had it violated they can devalue themselves and their self esteem or self worth can start to decline further then what it was initially and that does hurt.

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