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One thing that is vitally important in life is acceptance, not just by yourself others also. One of my greatest battles has been getting others to accept that I am who I am as a person. I have my own personal limits and tolerances what I am able to do as a person. We are essentially a product of our own upbringing that we are brought up to believe things by our own family as they think they may know best.

Some people literally refuse to accept others decisions in life. They refuse to accept that the person wants to work in a volunteer role, they refuse to accept that the person has chosen to do what they want, they refuse to accept the person getting married and living their own life. They think that they can control you or tell you want to do as a person. Part of my battle has been such, having people in my life that refused to accept my choice and decision.

It is my right to make that decision and my choice be it right or wrong no matter what. I recently made a major decision and well it’s time to implement that decision, it’s going to take work time and patience yet it is possible to achieve that goal. There is a way it’s just finding such and going from there. For me things are moving forward it’s just needing to take it as it comes and say well lets go.

Some people do not see the opportunity in front of them because they are so conditioned by their family or past that they do not notice it. Others know it’s easiest to wait and say ok it’s not good right now or I need to wait longer. This time I have to say that the time is right for me to do what has to be done.

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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake