One thing I have been coming to terms with is the good and bad friendships, those that are positive and negative. Also working on understanding others personalities, right now its part of the journey. I guess knowing that I need to deal with a variety of people, some of those people are going to be destructive or toxic and others are going to be supportive and encouraging. For me I have to work on a number of areas. I know some people are not going to appreciate or enjoy such; however they need to understand I am doing this for my own wellbeing not for their own individual happiness. So it’s time to establish some firm boundaries, that means saying well this is what I am prepared to accept and not prepared to accept.
I know people will push them, some people will receive less boundaries whist others will receive more a lot more. It’s about me saying this is what is acceptable and not acceptable, there are people who I will not have to set these limits with and people who will need them enforced to the letter. They will not be happy however I need to do such for my own individual health. That means that my own personal time and business time must be adhered to by the family no matter what. Emergencies only, it’s time to say I am not going to do this for you anymore.
