Everybody comes to the stage where they are saying all right that is enough. Right now, that is where I am; sometimes you do what you love yet no one will acknowledge such. I am someone who has given to others since I was 17, there are people out there who say oh a 3-day weekend time to party. 3-days off, what about those people who work no matter what day it is; I had to say this to someone recently I am not having 3-days off I am still working on Monday. Today I would like to look at appreciation for those people who just give, these people are the ones who work through the night to make sure that people are safe, and they are the ones who give from the heart.
Quite often, these people will not worry about their own needs and they even let their own needs come last. For year’s this has been me, the one who has put everyone else before himself his parents, his siblings and even his colleagues. Doing everything for them, some people never know how much someone is doing for others. I think it is time that I choose what I want over my own family and colleagues right now. For me it is time to concentrate on those relationships I want and to let people deal with their own little mess that they have created. It is time to start that family, meaning finding someone who I can love and loves me back for who I am as a person.
For me I am a romantic writing poems, picnics in the park, candle lit dinners, music by candle light, sleigh rides in the snow, gondola rides in Venus, it’s part of my personality who I am as a person. I am someone who romances a woman and appreciates her in my own way; it is not about flowers to me. It is showing her I care, spending time with a woman and sharing my life with her. I have many deep beliefs even in the fact that a person’s personality is more beautiful than their exterior beauty. No one is the same; people have a different view on how they see things. People’s beliefs have formed so differently for many reasons; I certainly know my deceased grandmother a family woman who would do anything for her family majorly influenced my belief system.
Anyway, for me the time has come to walk that road to say well I am not going to just sit around and do nothing about it anymore. It is time to really care about someone deeply. It is time to break those shackles that my family has engrained into me and say that is not true. For me it is time to build my own life. I have no idea how I am going to meet the woman who is to be my wife yet, however it will happen. It is destined to happen.
Yet I for me I know that there are people out there protecting us when most people are asleep, they are the police, the ambulance, the fire fire-fighters, the emergency workers both volunteer and paid. They work 24 hours 7 days a week and 365 days a year to make sure people are safe, then there is the public transport providers they do the same thing do not stop. For me occasionally it would be nice to hear someone say I appreciate what you do, it would be nice to have someone show me they appreciate me for doing that which I have done for many years. In a way, it would be nice to be shown hey I appreciated what you did for me; I have been the one who has taken care of things for others for too long. Anyway, I know it is time to create that life. There are a lot of people out there who are the unsung heroes or people who never get acknowledged or appreciated or very little appreciation. Yet I know it is time to take charge of my own life.
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