Others opinions and their beliefs, there are many people who enjoy making others feel small. There are people out there who love to build people up, there are people out there who love to have fun, there are people out there who love to build others up. One of the things that I have been learning recently is about personality and how people are made just from their words or actions. I have noticed a few examples of someone who loves controlling others just from words or actions. They are people who are saying get out of my way; this is my way or the highway. Even this morning I saw classic example of someone like that, driving back from the gym someone was so frustrated with my driving that they were exclaiming with their hands in anger. Eventually they overtook me yet they were playing "coming through move out of my way".
This type of person is someone who in-stills fear others and expects that they can get away with such. These people have destroyed others dreams because they can often think of themselves and not of others. I have been starting to understand more and more about these people and myself. Last week's funeral went well and it showed me where my personality came from and why I am who I am. My personality is that of someone who loves giving to family and friends, someone who will just give, give, gives. The person who keeps on giving, yet also my consuming desire to be a father and I even realised why I have struggled to maintain work for so long.
I was not meant to work for a boss, I was meant to be someone who helped raise my own kids. That is my mission in life, to be at home with his partner helping her raise the kids, for me I love what I do, yet I work around my family and other commitments. The funeral taught me that I could work things around my family and friends no matter what, its finding things that work for me to get my business going. For me I am someone who is always there for my friends when they need me, I always have been. There are people I know who were not such, they could not be there for someone when that person needed them. Eventually a person will get so frustrated with that person that they will just say sorry goodbye and leave. That is what I do, I get to a stage where I have had enough and walk away. There is a saying "I've had enough of this", then walk out the door.
It amazes me the people who need to analyse everything. Everything, they have all the coupons save the most money, yet they sometimes miss things. There are people out there who miss out, as they took too long to make a decision. For me I just know that although I take time to make a decision sometimes it is because I am not ready to act yet, others it is because it is not right. Other times I have already made the decision; I just have not realised that yet. Sometimes I am just getting the information for future reference. Other times it needs work, there are many reasons people delay action and a great saying I heard recently. There is never the perfect time to do something. You just need to work around what is being done and you will know then to say or do something.
There is one last person who is out there, the ones who just want to have fun. Everything they do just has to have fun involved meaning dancing the night away, parties and just generally having a good time. These are great people they can be family orientated and wonderful people also. Anyway, a question there is no right or wrong answer to this.... Other than money, what is most important to you?
