Everyone in life needs to find out why they continue through those thick and thin moments. Is there someone who has stood there beside you through those thick and thin moments and has supported you no matter what may happen? That person has stood beside you no matter what they have seen you through heartbreak these are often you best friends. Sometimes they are in a literal mess themselves. So what do people do to get themselves out of the rubbish and to move on with their lives. They need to stop listening other people’s thinking and not taking it on board as a person. In order to find out what you are meant to be in life you need to stop this, you need to stop that chatter in your mind and start thinking for yourself. I know for me what I am meant to be and what I am meant to do.
Sure it’s rough at times and it’s not easy, however in the end we all do manage to get through it all. It’s also about knowing who your influences are as person. Remembering that it’s none of your business what others think of you, I know one person drags me down and it’s now learning to disassociate from them owing to how they treat me. They have to be told no this is not acceptable, there are others who respect me enough to say you have enough on your plate right now I will just make it worse; that is how much they care about you, so essentially they are saying it’s too much for you right now and I care about you as a person. In order to find this why and who you are meant to be in life you need to stop listening to those people who do not respect you, those people who are negative and will drag you down even future.
The people who have the maturity to say it’s too much for you with what you are going through are the positive influences in your own life. They stay there, you need to also switch off the negative self talk of those people who have oppressed or belittled you for some reason. That takes work as sometimes you do not even know they are doing such at all, what I am currently doing to remove such is a 30 day mental cleanse which helps me remove that old stinking thinking which has been programmed in for years. This is the only way you can find your why by switching off that chatter and no longer listening to that negative little voice inside yourself. You can find out more about a 30 day mental cleanse here www.30daycleanse.com
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Be a mentor with a servants heart Ben Drake
